Now days you see so many in the media just trying come out into the world and have accepted being ABDL like if your gay or transgender. But I’m sorry to say it’s not going to happen ever is about how see it as a taboo / kink who should keep it private. So stop trying to walk around in public just in a diaper because it beyond getting the law involved if someone feel not comfortable and especially around children. If want be baby 24/7 go for it, have but keep to limit where everyone feel comfortable even if in a public dress like a baby with mommy or daddy or by yourself.
All I’m saying is limits to what you should do and not do in life and instead of what we are seeing many in the media go way beyond it.
Not sure. Attention is the one big thing, I suppose. Some folk want to be a lifestyle messiah…and usually end up on their own flaming cross for it in the end, and more often than not rightly so. I wonder if this Damian guy realizes he’s overcooked it. But I’ve seen others, like that one Diaper Lover on Jerry Springer who, appearing with his obviously-repulsed girlfriend, made a spectacle of himself and got rightly routed. I think there’s another one named Sam or Stan who got his 15 minutes of shame, too.
I don’t expect it to ever become mainstream, but I believe we need some awareness and better image control in terms of Adult Babies, and people who like to wear diapers.
We face some of the most fierce rejection and ridicule, we live in the shadows, we are forced to lie to the ones (friends/family) who are close to us, and when a loved one finds out there are far too many cases where friendships and or families are torn apart because it’s impossible to accept that a grown person would want to wear a diaper. It causes unnecessary stress, self hate, low self esteem, etc…
ABDL is unheard of, extremely uncommon, unknown and inherently wrong and f’d up, sick. Not to cause any stress for anyone, but the truth is we are up there with other strange addictions, such as eating cat food, or eating dirt, or having a sexual relationship with your car, or love moth balls and carry them in your pockets, or adults who wear diapers and sleep in cribs wearing onesie PJs and drink from a baby bottle and cry and get spoon fed.
Which is NOT the truth about us if you ask me. Unlike the aforementioned addictions, ABDL is safe, no harm, its rejuvenating and enjoyable, its fun to age play. We are only doing stuff thats safe for a baby so… whats the harm?
I for one think sleeping with a diaper on, a pacifier, and a warm bottle is very relaxing and peaceful! Nothing more.
I’m not really looking to go out in public like that - (well accept for the diaper because I have to medically, and do - but nothing that attracts any real attention) - but I don’t feel it should be totally taboo either.
And while I do not see that anytime soon - you can NEVER say never. - Actually, not that long ago - people said the same things (basically) about gays, trans, Bi, ex.
yes, I agree that none of us should make someone else someone else uncomfortable. and although I don’t Wardle down my High Street in just a diaper, saying look at me I am enormous.
I also wont to be comfortable, but I don’t think being in a snap crunch onesie under my shorts and a boyish t-shirt isn’t too much.
I like the braids in my hear and most other people like them as well, Ok I suckle a pacifier under my face mask, but no one as said anything to me. no one has run around with their arms in the air saying “think of the children!”
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I really like the saying of Keep it covered, keep it clean, keep it PG13.
This is one of the things thats grinds my gears actually, give folks an inch of space and they want to take a mile.
While I love how much ab/dl has advanced over the past 10 yrs, we went from mainly in the closet, to going online, to having open meetups and cons that rent out whole hotels for large private parties.
I hate how to some people thats not enough, they want to go out into the public vanilla world and press the idea of what they like onto the general public. Seriously, how disrespectful can some people get, publicly dressing as a baby / showing diapers, wetting / messing diapers at restaurants or crowded area’s, walking around sucking a baby bottle or binkie, publicly showing that they are in little space, capturing the pictures then putting it all on social media outlets, for the love of god, come on people, get some class.
I have no quarrel with doing such activities on the down low, like avoiding public area’s, doing things within the privacy of your home or property, or covering in vanilla excepted outerwear, but some of what I’ve seen posted online is at the minimum cringe worthy, disrespectful and possibly unlawful.
Of course there are always going to be those that take things too far. That is sure to happen with anything. I think a lot of people aren’t looking to walk around out in public in only a diaper. Most parents wouldn’t do that with their actual children (let them walk around in public in just a diaper).
However for those that are struggling to accept themselves, having the acceptance of the public would likely help them. Nothing major, I have on occasion put myself out there. I carry a little teddy bear with me a lot, he is my friend and travels well. I use a finding dory cup with a straw in the car and every once in a while I’ll take it with me where we are going.
I also wear what I call reasonable kids clothes. I wear a lot of pastels, some that have been modified a little to give them a cute twist, like disney ribbon or lace. Since these are little things that make me happy and I can’t imagine anything that I do would make anyone uncomfortable. I have honestly never gotten even a strange look. I just want to be me which is a lifestyle little.
However for me this is a non-sexual thing and I don’t wear diapers. I know sometimes people “get off” on doing things in public that others would be very embarrassed by. But those people that go to far are the ones that tend to give any group a bad name.
Socially acceptable ahh yeah right, like the people who walk around with their pants down to the bottom of the butt crack with all underwear showing?? We all see it everyday. It’s now become so mainstream that perhaps one day the :express" yourself time will come if things are done in a very tasteful manner that everyone can grow to accept. Be yourself be proud of who you are but dont be disrespectful and things hopefully will change for the better for the community in the future. Common sense goes a long way and the community had come a very long way since DPF.
It’s true Ellie that there is no law to say you cannot run around in underwear after look up the law with indecency. But still I would not feel comfortable around someone like this and end up say something or leaving the area. If someone want to walk around outside in public dressed a baby then go for it but don’t show diaper to everyone it just creepy not cute.
the only way for the public accepts it would be if the world has a radicle change. but that being said no, i don’t think we should force this into the open. the world isn’t ready for public ABDL, hell we still have homos and trans people get beaten up just for their sexuality and gender choice as unfortunate and intolerable such intolerance and behavior to the homo and trans communities is. i just don’t think ABDL should be forced into the general public.
also this would put a spotlight on to the community especially for all of us who don’t want to be under the spotlights
There’s quite a few semi-discreet ABDL clothes out there right now, but sometimes it’s hard to tell what will show a diaper and what won’t from photos online. And of course everyone’s in overalls/shortalls right now. I dress like a kid all the time and nobody says a thing.
