What’s So Appealing About Nappies For ABDL’s is it the sense of comfort, security, helplessness and fact adults wearing nappies by desire without need is considered taboo and weird but most non ABDL’s thus ABDL’s may feel somewhat naughty/rebellious against society’s norms?..
For me it is the comfort and accepting that part of me is still little.
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I find wearing diapers as wonderfully confining…in a soft, warm, touchy and absorbent way. The snugness and pressure in certain amounts in certain areas make diapers feel secure.
I began to understand more on that concept after I got and began using my weighted blanket at night. Diapers are a lot like that…except around the waist, against the genitalia & bottom and between the legs. And for some, it may not reinforce inner feelings and memories of babyhood and vulnerability…but it does for the rest of us, in a very comforting way.
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I wear for the comfort and stress relief that it offers.
The feeling of a soft or wet diaper around my privates makes me feel good (not in a sexual way, more like seeing a good movie or reading a good book).
It also offers me a chance to unwind from a stressful day or activity. By wearing a diaper it can take me back to the days when I had no or only a little responsibility. Not that I regress, I have never been able to truly regress.
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Well for me I think being my first possession and feeling the warmth of wetting and the ensuing aromatherapy combined with a caring mommy changing me. Well I guess I really don’t know the answer. So meany possible attractions to diapers. I do prefer staying in wet diapers more than not, wonder if I didn’t get changed much as a little kiddo single mom had a lot on her plate love her so much.
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I LOVE the comfort and bulk the soft padding, I also really love the compression and the “hug” that it gives me. I also really like wearing Panties for the compression, but there’s something about the soft bulky padding of diapers that gives me a satisfying feeling that wearing Panties alone never could. I have no idea why I feel this way, it’s just always been with me and will be there forever.
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This.
I love hugs. Really crave that soft affection. Not a whole lot of it in my upbringing, except for certain pieces. Diapers make me feel held and snug.
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Totally agree! I do have some sexual feelings with it, but I would be lying if I said it was only sexual. You described the best parts of all the rest of it for me!
Indeed. The little tickles that go with wearing diapers are a plus, too! 
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I’m more DL/little, but I’m also nighttime inco, so I wear to keep my bed dry primarily.
But I prefer the pretty, cute kinds, because they kinda make me feel cute—and when I found the right fit on cloth, I felt protected and safe. When I’m doing daytime stuff I can make it to the bathroom usually, but I get a case of the nerves sometimes, and in those moments I pad up and everything is suddenly OK again.
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It’s a license to drink when I’m thirsty, eat when I’m hungry, know the difference between the two, stop when I’m full, and not worry about what happens! Cloth feels very different than a disposable, but it’s where almost all my affinity goes. Cloth kind of. . . It kind of shapes to each person’s body. You can warm it. If you try that with a disposable, I hear it’ll bust in the dryer. Also, you get to decide what the scent that says diaper is to you, and scent yours accordingly.
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For me in security, when i have my nappie i feel so safe
I just enjoy the feeling and comfort a warm wet diaper offers. Knowing that when I go to bed at night, I won’t have to get up to use the bathroom and the relaxed feeling that gives me
I find it as a big stress reliever. Love the security that a diaper provides. Also as I started to transition to diapers more. I have noticed it helps improve my mood as well. I have been suffering from depression for the past year and being diapered also helps with that.
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I liked wearing diapers when I was a toddler. They felt good. They were convenient (for me, if not for my parents and other caregivers).
My parents tried to shame me into giving them up. That did not work. I didn’t see why being in diapers was a bad thing or why I should be excited about “big kid” underwear. Then my parents explained to me that diapers are expensive, and that I shouldn’t keep wearing them if I didn’t really need them. I accepted that explanation.
My opinion hasn’t changed much since age 4. (Yes, I was still in diapers at age 4.) Diapers feel good, and they’re convenient. Now that I’m dexterous enough to change myself, my use of diapers needn’t inconvenience anyone else. Moreover–this is something I realized only after I grew up–diapers look better than other underwear on most men. So compared with briefs, boxers, or other “grown-up” underwear, diapers are a superior product. But sometimes we have to use inferior products because of resource constraints (including environmental impact as well as money).
Perhaps someone could explain to me why non-ABDLs like non-absorbent underwear so much. It’s a mystery to me!
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I admire that you are so positive and confident about diaper wearing.
It’s a lot of things, one very obvious thing is appearance; Plain White doesnt really do it for me, and I find most Medical Style Diapers just plain Ugly sometimes
Also I find a good ABDL Brand is pretty consistent and should try to catch a bad batch of Diapers before it reaches customers, but that may not always be possible; when a bad batch is discovered and if anything makes it to the customer they should replace it
And also they usually perform at a Great Level, you see ABDL Printed Diapers being rated as high as 6000ML (or so) even if it only gives you a general idea of real world results it’s better than nothing
This results in a very dependable Diaper where you may only need 2 or 3 changes in a 24 hour time frame (compared to an easy 5 or 6 with Cheaper/less absorbent Diapers) that feels good, fits good, works good, and looks amazing (with many different options on the market)