My mom just found my diaper backpack and asked me what the stuff inside was. I told her to please stay quiet and that I’d explain later, but I don’t know what to say or where to start. I really need help from you guys. And please don’t tell me to tell her that I’ve been wetting the bed because that won’t work.
Two options you could do one you could tell her the truth that you like wearing them you don’t know why maybe give her a link to read about it.
Two you could tell her it’s a private matter that you just don’t feel comfortable talk about.
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I really want to be honest about it and just get it done with
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I would say that honesty is the best policy but only you can decided what is best in your situation. I would advise tell her the truth. If you enjoy wearing a diaper there is nothing wrong with that at all..
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My situation was a bit different from your, I choose to tell my and was not found out. My only advice would be to be open and honest. You don’t have to go into every detail, just a small explanation. When I talked with my wife a calmly told her that I had had thought and wondered what it would be like to wear diapers. I told her that I had found this community to help me understand more about this life style and it was new to me.
You could also give a small explanation that you wear diapers because it help with (your words here) and that you are not ready to talk about it with her.
I don’t know how long you have been wearing, but for me bing new and not hiding it from her was probably my saving grace. After we talked about it I found that I could joke about it by saying something like better diapers then some kind of addiction. I can’t say that everyone gets this response but I hope it goes well for you.
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I would also like to point out that their is nothing illegal about wearing a diaper. I mean there’s a ton of really bad things you could be into.. Wearing a diaper for your comfort doesn’t even hit anywhere close to being bad.. 
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I’ll admit, I find “I don’t want to hide anything from my parents, so I’m telling them about my diapers” to be pretty selfish. One would certainly hope one’s dad isn’t thinking, “I don’t want to hide anything from my son, so I’m going to tell him that I like to take mommy roughly from behind and spank her.” Gosh. Get over the idea that privacy is secrecy. It’s ok to have private things!
But because the OP was found out, I vote for a different approach: Be humble, admit you like wearing diapers and have for a long time, and let them know you’re doing your best to be discreet about it. No need to go deep.
And then take a few deep breaths. It’ll be ok. 
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I don’t have any experience with this so take my words with a grain of salt. I think depending on your relationship with your mom and how understanding and accepting she is as a person there will be different solutions for you to go about. If you feel like she would be very understanding then it would probably be best to be honest and briefly explain everything to her. However, you are an adult and this is a private matter. Therefore I would hope your mom respects that as well and if you choose not to tell her then she should respect that. Try not to make up an excuse though because lying is way worse than choosing silence or honesty in your circumstances. We don’t really completely understand your relationship with your mom so its mostly up to you to use your best judgement. Don’t be pressured by anyone to choose an option because it worked for them… that’s all I can say
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Well either lie to them, which could cause more problems down the road, or tell them the truth, if your mom is understanding she might accept that is a part of you, or the worst that can happen is that she throws them out or makes you see a psychologist.
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Your best option is to come clean here man, the jig is up. Explain it in a way she cant jump to conclusions or stereotype but be honest, any bull will just make her less accepting when the real truth comes out
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Mother’s first reaction will probably be to assume the worst, such as: you’re being forced into it, something is wrong with you medically, it’s related to pedophilia, it has something to do with drugs, etc.
So if you tell her you won’t talk about it, she will worry a lot more. Just tell the truth and explain everything and why you do it in order to quell her fears. Ask her to support you silently by ignoring any signs of wearing if you wish, and if you don’t want anyone else to know than ask her to keep it a secret.
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Well you can either make up a lie or come clean. It sounds like she doesn’t know what’s in your backpack or at least that’s how I take it. Unless she did find the diapers. I had a very similar experience but both my parents found out. My dad found my backpack full of diapers under my bed. I should of known he find them eventually because he’s a snooper. I for now replaced my bedroom door handle with one that can lock. Anyway he must of told my mom and I said I’d tell her tomorrow before school. I was A senior just to give you an example of how old I was. Anyway I just came clean and told her I have a diaper fetish and like to wear diapers. Didn’t tell her I was ABDL but at that time I was mostly just diaper lover than ABDL. I don’t think she understood it that well but now I don’t care as much when I buy diapers because she knows now. She would bring it up time to time but now doesn’t say anything unless she finds them in the mail. It’s really just one of those things that you’ll talk about it. Be awkward for a few days at most then never really talk about after that.
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My mom was fine. She even thought all my stuff was cute and said she didn’t care if I indulge in it
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That must be a huge relief!
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I would never recommend anyone to lie about serious medical issues, especially when it’s bladder and bowel. If you want to you can tell her they’re diapers you have in your backpack and that you wear them to make you feel safe (or whatever your reason is-but do not say for sexual reasons). You could also ask her if she could keep a promise to keep it secret too if you want so nobody but her has to know. But if it really is too personal for you, just tell her it’s something private you have in your backpack that you wish to not discuss.
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Dude that is awesome. I’m glad she is okay with it
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Glad things worked out good for you.
And as others have said, there are far worse things in this world you could have been indulging in.
A word of caution thou.
No longer having to hide it, your items or any future packages is a relief.
But just because your mom now knows is not a green light to go all overboard with this.
Don’t mistake her understanding as it being something she ever really wants to see.
Just please keep it a private thing. That’s all.
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I would not suggest lying! - Beyond that, I would be no real help hear since I have had IC issues since birth, and therefore was never out of diapers to start with.
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Aw! So you can keep wearing, drink out of sippy cups, have binkies, etc. without her making a big deal out of it. I know some parents do and i don’t get why since the person is safe.
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This is one of those situations where it is best to be honest but try not to go to much into it. You were lucky to have an understanding mother a lot of people aren’t.
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