Told my counselor!!!! Finally!!! :D

Guys guess what. Told my counselor I’m a ABDL, Sissy, Little and she totally accepts me!!! I was about to have a full blown heart attack but when I told her she was fucking cool with it. Excuse the language. But literally!!! She was actually glad that I told her and opened up. I thought I was gonna pass out from anxiety. Literally. She wants to discuss more about it on Friday. I even told her I’m a sissy and explained to her about it and she accepted me. She was actually quite proud that I opened up because she found out where most of my stress and anxiety was coming from. :slight_smile:

I hope when I see mine he is as open and accepting about it we shall see as I go to see him Thursday

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I am really happy for you! It feels awesome to be accepted. It also takes a lot of courage to come out, congratulation!

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Good!

Coming out clean about your identity is a first step.

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She basically said the same thing. She looked it up while we were talking she first thought I was in it for sexual pleasure if that’s why I wanted to wear for diapers for my IBS, etc. I said no we’ve known each other for two years and I said that I’ve been having this problem going on for years. It’s kinda frustrating when you have no one to talk about. She seems more curious about the whole subject too and wants to learn more about it on Friday. I told her I’m mostly in it for age regression and roleplay not the sexual part. I said even if I was at least I’m not doing drugs or harming anyone. She agreed. She has no issues with me being a sissy or wearing sissy baby clothing etc. Or drinking from a bottle or being a diaper lover in general. Or adult baby etc. She don’t care if I have a paci too. I also told her I’m into cross play and cross dressing. She told me that coming out with a big secret like that is tough no wonder I have so much stress. I told her I want to be babied, be treated like a baby, breast fed, etc. She said that’s only natural for thinking like that “in a good way” because I told her if I ever get a girlfriend I want a motherly figure girl. Etc. She totally understands where I’m coming from.

Glad you have found someone to support you.

I had a really good therapist that help me.

Let me know when you tell your friends. I do soo much art with this part of myself that its not possible to hide any of it. I even did my avatar with the pacifier. Its great to hear that others are starting to say something and not being afraid.

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I applaud your courage. I’m glad it was a good experience for you. I’ve not told my counselor but I don’t feel a need to do that. I think I let my immediate needs at the moment guide the conversation and that’s usually me trying to get through the day and another week.

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Congrats man! Sharing can be super stressful and hard, I applaud your bravery! and how very cool that your therapist accepts it and was chill about it

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I don’t have any friends in real life. So I’m pretty much good to go right now. Half of the ones I know online tho are too absorbed into politics. Which is why I’m always stressed. Just had to deactivate my FB account due to drama breaking out. >_>