Being a switch is so hard sometimes… I was feeling really little and I was even in puppyspace when my gf wanted to switch… don’t get me wrong, I love domming her and being her mommy, but… she switches so easily… it’s not as easy for me. Any other switches who have this issue?
My one relationship actually ended because my then girlfriend couldn’t understand that I also needed to be little. It started out with her being my mommy, but she eventually got me to switch. I thought it could work, because in the beginning she wasn’t as selfish with it. But honestly she took advantage of my kindness. She would often force me out of little space or not let me even get into it in the first place! I ended up being her daddy 24/7 basically. She didn’t comprehend or care that I needed to regress as well. Balance is the key in these types of relationships, which granted, is hard. As long as either of you aren’t selfish like my ex and force each other out of little space especially when it’s desperately needed, then you two should be fine. Honestly, maybe a dual little time would be fun? Both of you could be little at the same time, no dommes in sight, just both of you being little and relaxing. Honestly, communication, respect, and honesty are key. If you’re feeling extremely stressed and need to be little, she needs to let you be little and not force you out of it and vise versa. Lack of communication and one person hogging all of the “little time” and disrespecting the others needs can really hurt a switch/switch relationship. Take it from me. Just respect each other, have boundaries, and be sure to communicate.
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Basis of any (type of) relationship.
We’re trying it today and it’s pretty great! I’m in puppy space and she’s in little space and it’s fun!
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Is this gf of yours on this site?
Is she going to join?
Actually does she know about this site?!!
I don’t think she does. I’m not sure I want her finding it out, though, because I’m not ready to introduce my want for diapers yet
Omg yay! I’m so glad it’s fun. That sounds awesome.
my baby NooNoo switches almost instantly, find it amazing, harder for her to get back to adult mode though, and can just be a 2 yr old instantly, love her 2 yr age play, i actually see here as two mentally and physically, i love play with here as a 2 yr old, feeding ect.
Even though me and my little are long distance. Ay this point she is almost always in a little mindset to some degree or another. This is something that has started recently but its nice. However, she does enter a bigger mode every now and then. I will also request her to leave little mode every now at then so I can talk with her as her. And when I want to put her into little mode if a talk is going badly or is getting to the end. I can send her into subby little space in a snap of my fingers by baby talking her… Its so cute. When she is little its super obvious and can be seen as a physical change to her personality the way she acts and the way she looks and thinks.
Now I my self am also very much little. I do sacrifice my amount of little time I get because shes not exactly a switch but will give me some mommy attention every now and then. If I am in a bad mood, depressed, super tired, or just really wanting to be little. She will usually help me but I am usually on my own. But she love being little with me and teasing me and making me blush and making fun of me in a cute way.
Either way. We do seperate our time and over the last year and a half we have learned what each of us need and how to give each other that attention we desire. It was not a easy process and we are still learning. But it was worth it!