I just recently started wearing adult diapers on weekends, but I’m still having trouble allowing myself to relax and wet my diaper. I think it’s because when I feel I need to go, I get an erection which blocks pee from coming out because my penis can’t expand outward. Not my main question, but are different diaper brands better than others at fitting an erection? I’ve only worn the ABU Super Dry Kids brand so far.
I hear it takes time to get used to wearing, but I’m wondering what to do in the meantime. When I’m unable to wet myself because of an erection, should I try to wait longer until I have no choice but to wet myself? Or is it better to just take off the diaper, let the erection get big, and pee normally? I’ve mostly done the latter because I don’t want to risk a UTI, which I hear is a common issue with wearing. Should I be worried about getting a UTI while I’m still getting used to diapers?
You would take your diaper off and pee without it? I thought a big part of loving diapers was wetting them! But if you don’t want to, that’s ok, I mean, everyone should do what they really want to do.
I wonder if maybe you are putting your penis down, and it can’t pee because it can’t go up and be more comfortable? I always put my penis up in underwear and diapers, and can pee in diapers this way.
Lol, I know it sounds silly. The goal is to pee with them on, I swear!
I do put my penis down. If I put it up, then it would stick out of my diaper when I get an erection. Actually, it’d probably stick out anyways. Super Dry Kids only have 2 tapes, so even though I have it on tight, there’s still a small opening at the top in front.
I had that problem frequently back in the '80s and '90s, trying to wet my diapers. One thing I found that worked is to firmly clench your anal sphincter and hold; you’ll find that your erection will begin to lessen gradually, just keep going until gone. Good luck!
I had similar issues myself. I recently have been able to begin wetting myself. I find it helps me to stand up and imagine im peeing outside. I hope to be able to go while sitting/lying down in the future.
Glad to hear you can achieve and erection. You may need to masturbate and ejaculate until you’re no longer erect. Wait until your penis is flaccid and point your penis downward into the diaper, eventually you will go pee. Sit, stand, or lay down. Relax… You might be worried that you’ll leak and this is normal. Get used to going a little at a time until you feel more confident.
I had this problem with my ex gf before when she wanted to try it out. it works out for her when i told her to just sit on the toilet, get the most comfortable position and try. she only wet a little bit and didnt emptied her bladder but it worked. i mean we tried bunch of things and she cant even let a single drop out..
So I think you may want to try some relaxing YouTube videos ,like there is meditation and all kinds of different ones even abdl hypnosis lol they wont work rt away but they will help goodluck
for me, the sound of the person in the hypnosis always bothers me and idk if its real or hypnosis just some ppl trying to make money. although some relaxing sounds on youtube does help for me
When I first started wearing it helped me to sit on the toilet. It was much easier to pee in a familiar position. But, it sure didn’t take long to get to the point of being able to pee anywhere and anytime I wanted. One thing that helps me is I rarely empty my bladder completely. When I’m about to burst, I like to let just enough pee out so as to reach the desperation stage in another hour or 2. That way, I always have a supply to pee a little whenever I want.
I’ve tried standing in the shower, but when I do that I usually start to get the erection that stops me from peeing. Makes me think it’s actually normal for me to get slightly hard to pee while standing, even without diapers. I’ll also try sitting down like others have said. Not sure which should be easier for a male body.
Just wait out the erection. Try thinking about something else that you really have to concentrate on (I do math problems in my head). You can also try minor exercise; a few pushups/squats/situps, or even just repeatedly flexing all your big muscle groups can help a lot.
It also sounds like the diaper may be too small for you. Definitely try a size up, and definitely one of the 4-tape versions. I’d even recommend a cheaper diaper like abena M4/L4. Until you get the hang of wetting, there’s not much point in the more expensive ones.
I think most guys go though this due to the pressure and friction the diaper causes but eventually you will get use to it and the erections will stop. I know I had the same issue when I first started to wear for my OAB issue.
This used to be a problem for me in my teens when it was still a sexual thing for me.
Trying to point down when excited was just too painful, and pointing up was a recipe for leaks.
The trouble with “dealing with” the erection was that it then made the desire to wear go away.
I think the answer is to go for a wee before you put the nappy on. Then wear while pointing up and keep yourself busy doing something else to keep your mind off
The excitement should hopefully subside after a while, by which time you might want to wet it.
Of course, after you’re wet the excitement is likely to come back more quickly.
In some ways I wish it was still a sexual thing for me as the intensity of excitement in the early days around puberty was unbelievable.
Nowadays my own wearing is not a turn on at all but gives me an overwhelming sense of security and well-being. A warm, relaxing, calming feeling.
Seeing my partner wear, however, is another matter…
