It’s hard because I feel a part of me really wants this but a part is scared about how it will go. I’m afraid of trying to figure out how to keep my diapers discreet. I have somewhat of a system figured out. I have pretty much figured out from experimenting and found something I like in both feel and fit. Just stocked up. I’m really feeling tempted to make tomorrow the day I throw out my remaining underwear. I kind of think my doubts and failed attempts in the past mostly came down to being nervous. I figure these thoughts of going 24/7 wouldn’t keep coming back every few months after past failed attempts if it wasn’t something I wanted.
Again ( not sarcastic but I’ve been repetitive) my wife says "who cares about what underwear you have, that’s weird. Just be yourself.
Just do it. No one in public is out looking around trying to find people that are padded. You’d be surprised that if/when people you know find out that they don’t care. Enjoy it and after a few weeks you won’t even think about it while in public or around people.
For those 24/7 diaper wearers who are not IC, what does it cost you a month for the diapers and all the necessary accessories?
Totally agree with Rockyr. Just start and keep going and it will become natural. And then you won’t care what others might see because they won’t care and probably won’t even notice.
Just go for it and throw out all your undies. I did it about 7-8 years ago and have never looked back.
I agree - people don’t go looking for diaper bulges, so don’t worry about others. Do what you want to do.
BTW - I also agree that it gets pretty hot here in Texas in the summer.
I just threw out the underwear. It felt exhilarating. It’s just diapers and socks in there
I cheat and go to the thrift store for alot . Being 24/7 I get pack a week for like 5 bucks. We live in an old neighborhood. Plenty of supplies. But when I’m feeling fancy I have rearz and other abdl. Not to mention my collection of ecoable cloth diapers. Daily is usually a plushie disposable and cloth cover. But still about 5-10$ a week
Change and fear are always difficult to deal with but you will be able to overcome them you have a lot of support here to help you ![]()
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It’s not easy changing a pre programmed behavior. But who says that I have to be an adult. What if I adult as much as possible, and leave the rest be. So what if I still carry a stuffies. Same thing with diapers, you don’t have to change me. I take care of myself.
Honestly if you are going 24/7 I would suggest tape on diapers. They protect you much better than a pull-up ever can. You may as well just plan on using them 24/7 at least for number 1… Occasionally for number 2(eventually you could do number 2 24/7 as well… Getting rid of your underwear would help with the transition… Tape on diapers would help with the transition as well because you will want to use them so they are not wasted
I’ve been considering 24/7 mostly wearing Goodnites during the day for their low profile and low sound signature. I’d still be using toilets when I need to go, but Goodnites make great drip protectors when I don’t get all the pee out :3
I typically wear something like Tranquility ATN or Betterdry during the day and something more AB at night, usually Bambino.
Do you mean not using the toilet 24/7 ? or just sometimes, and wearing for enjoyment? goodnights will fail i think very quickly. I am partially bladder incontinent so approaching this from that practical perspective .
It costs me about $160 a month.
I usually wear 1 high capacity diaper + 2 boosters a day. I’m able to stretch that to last for about 24 Hours.
I guess you should think about why you’re getting worried.
If it’s just because of the thought that it might never get normal, I can assure you that it definitely will become normal. I’m wearing 24/7 for over 4 years now and it is just my normal underwear by now. It would feel super weird to walk around without one.
My problem is more that I need to “hide” it, while it became like the most normal thing in the world to wear diapers to me. Sometimes it feels really like “come on, why would anyone think it’s weird, I wear them for years now, it’s not a big deal at all” ![]()
I can say being an adult baby that’s also Incontinent, it’s totally normal for me to be diapered 24/7 and permanently. I’ve been wearing diapers for a very long time and it’s become my underwear and shorts by now. Often times being an adult baby helps me deal with the crazy adult world and helps me deal with the adult world.
Im new here so i don’t know what to say