Does anyone else have pretend accidents? I get so deep into littlespace sometimes I pretend to run to the potty, but I’ll go in my diap right as I’m trying to take my pants off. I just think its cutesy <3 I dunno tho.. anyone else?
I’ve been wanting to have pretend accidents but my hubby doesn’t know I wet yet and I don’t want to spring that on him quite yet. Especially since he’s just getting used to my wearing diapers
Does he know about the diapers, and just not the wetting? If so, I would bring it to his attention that you have to go potty, and see what he does from there.
(Edit: just saw that you said he did know, my bad lol)
You’re good lol. But yeah idk I’ll try and see. It all just depends on his mood of course. Some days he’s extra loving and doting and other days he’s shut down and not wanting to deal with me
. He’s very hot and cold tbh. It can be very confusing
Most people are haha, I wish you the best luck ![]()
Sometimes. Sometimes I don’t run to the potty, I’ll just load myself where I am.
Only when I’m in pull-ups in toddler space, then I’ll usually have a pretend accident, and having one in pull-ups just makes it feel more authentic.
When I’m in diapers, though…I just go, no “accident” about it. ![]()
Yup. It’s nice to have some fun when you have to go potty in your diapers once in a while.
My “wetting/pooping” accidents are 100% real, since I am 100% incontinent.
I do but my pretend accidents in on my pants I hold a so it really looks an accident them I go to the bathroom and let it flow all the way down my pants, socks, it been a while since the last time I did that should do soon, but I have been diapering Almost 24/7 last week that now together with my anxiety and OAB I am going to pee every 40 min and is no fun to have an accident that doesn’t flow
I done that before many different times
Why not do it
I did that other day
I mean sometimes I will hold it on purpose till I have an accident, usually its not that big of a deal just a lil slip, when it gets everywhere on the bed that is traumatizing ngl. Yet I think its kind of “saucy” to pretend I am gonna have an accident, but can’t go the bathroom. ::p:
In regard to my AB side, those actions do sometimes happen, but when I am in a dip yeah I just use it lol I don’t “pretend”.
Hope that makes sense
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I do only sometimes too
I wasn’t sure if you meant by saying having a pretend accident by wetting your nappy on purpose or not wetting it at all but pretending you had. If it’s wetting on purpose yes I do it all the time and sometimes mess myself too. Its the main reason a wear nappies
For me at least, it’s roleplay. Rather than just letting go as one normally would, you go in your diaper but pretend you had an accident. When I roleplay/regress as a toddler in pull-ups, one scenario could be that I know I have to go potty but choose to keep playing until I get to a point where I pretend I can’t hold it anymore and…“oops”. Provided, when you’re alone, that novelty wears off quick a couple minutes after going; it’s much more fun when you have a caretaker you can sheepishly admit you “didn’t make it” to (and then it becomes their problem!).
I never do this when wearing a diaper but occasionally I have experimented with how long I can hold it and when it got really uncomfortable chose to ‘let go’ whilst in my clothes. I seem to have a strong bladder and even when I experimented with holding it I have never properly lost control, I was able to make sure I was in a place in my home where the clean-up would be easy but which was still not an appropriate place to pee so I guess in that way I was sort of stimulating an accident.
I’m a baby, we don’t have accidents. I just pop in a binky, grab BeckyBear, stand up and cuddle with her while I soak my diaper. Then it’s nice an’ warm in two places!
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I’m not an AB and tend to just use my nappy whenever the urge takes me, but there is something naughty and thrilling about occasionally holding on, lip biting, crossing one’s legs and then thinking “oops! I’m having an accident!” as it escapes… ![]()