I’ve seen entries about people watching porn and various names mentioned where porn can be seen.
I loathe the*** idea ***of porn. Have never watched it would never seek it. Am I unique?
I hate porn, too. It cheapens, demeans and destroys. And it has nothing whatsoever to do with love.
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TOTALLY agree. I hate it and cannot understand how anyone watching it can have any respect for women’s or their own body.
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I enjoy porn, mostly the amateur and fetish variety. It’s easy to generalise but it’s actually a vast genre with many different types and categories. I’m not a big fan of the studio productions, fake breasts, fake noises and such, I agree this doesn’t portray a healthy image about sex and body types.
Most porn isn’t claiming to be about love, it’s pure lust, it’s about the imagery . Perceptions of it being seedy or even showing a disrespect for ones body is more about you projecting your own ideals about what sex is. The participants might love their body, they might love sex, and they might love to show it…
however… I don’t want to downplay the bad side, unfortunately sex trafficking and abuse does happen. This is the issue I do have with porn, but it’s hard to image how watching shot amateur clips on pornhub would contribute to this. Seeking and vetting paid content is maybe a way to ensure all those involved are willing and consenting.
I Still Hate and Loath it.
As for amateur clips they still involve women who might not be consensual.
Amateur Professional World Cinema or Oscar Winner.
I loathe its very existence
Fair enough. Just realised your original point was on the the idea of porn and we have strayed straight to the gritty reality of its production, which is significant issue but a point which we should address separately.
So, to further discussion solely on the idea, which you loathe, that’s fine, but to loath it’s very existence is to force your opinions on others because as an “idea” others are entitled to like and watch porn.
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I can’t force my opinions on anyone by loathing the existence of porn. To every 100 people who dislike porn there are 10,000 who want it and like it. Force my opinion? How? I’m not a lawyer. Don’t be so friggin stupid.
Porn just emphasizes the urogenitalia physiological mechanics of (Human) hominid Primate Mating/Copulating, but is says nothing about love.
Love can not be reduced to only the Penis and the Vulva.
I have a love/hate relationship with porn.
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it can be good, it can be bad. I wouldn’t get to judgmental in a diaper.
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Diapers don’t contribute to human trafficking. Just my .000002 Bitcoin.
Adults wearing diapers for fun is irrational and deviant behavior, it contributes to environmental waste and global warming, while wasting large amounts of money. Anything can be made to look terrible, porn has some problems, but good luck completely banning it, that kind of tyranny tend to go too far, who gets to define what is and what isn’t porn. The best option if you don’t like porn is to not watch it, if you do see something that’s illegal than report it.
The point I am making is I see a lot of people being judgmental, and its kind of hypocritical, because there are people that are very critical of the idea of adults wearing diapers or acting little. Seems like we should all be just a bit more tolerant of stuff that’s not illegal.
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Not really. Diapers don’t victimize other people. Porn does. It even kills.
I am finished with this discussion.
Porn can, not all porn is human trafficking or victimizing someone. You are making a very strong and crude generalization that simply not true of the entire porn industry.
By the way, declaring that you are done with a discussion and walking away like you just did a mic drop, does not end my end of the conversation, its a childish move that is meant to silence the opposition. Some people would consider this site a porn site and ban it, some people would ban all ABDL content, some people would ban all homosexual content, all under the premise of it being “porn”. This is why I dont understand the judgment and hypocrisy being displayed this morning.
But hey if you don’t like porn that cool for you.
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exactly. if you don’t like porn. don’t watch it.
I’m comfortable enough with myself to say this: I watch porn. There, I said it.
Do I know that it is a multi-billon dollar industry, that can involve human trafficking? Yes.
Can be it a healthy way to express my sexuality and satisfy myself when my partner isn’t in the mood? Yes.
As a less extreme example, I’ll use Amazon. I can get literally whatever I want for cheap by the next day from Amazon, but I know that Amazon treats their workers like crap and takes business away from other small businesses, along with making the top Amazon executives even richer. Does that mean I’m not going to buy from them? No-but, I will still support local businesses when I can. And with regard to porn, supporting the independent models/camgirls rather than the giant production studios.
Porn, at least in my opinion, is almost like anything else. It’s not 100% good, nor is it 100% bad-and very few things in life are.
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In my opinion “FridgeMagnetFish” is right when he says it is important to distinguish between “the idea of porn” and the “reality of its production”. For me the idea to sell sexual content for money (data, advertising, etc) is quite understandable. To watch a porn gives some people sexual pleasure. And to be honest I’m one of them.
I also can complete understand that people are concerned about the working conditions, if people get forced or tricked into the business etc. But as far as I can see, this is not necessarily the case for every porn. So if everyone participates in a porno production because they want to then I’m cool with it. This means from a theoretically point view I don’t have problems with the idea of porns.
However from a practical point of view the obvious question would be: How can you be sure that everyone participates because they want to? I think it is hard to be 100% sure but I also believe that there are (at least partially) indicators to assess this (Maybe I’m too naive, I don’t know). However, everyone has to decide for themselfs whether watching porn is to “risky” to support something “really bad”. I can understand both sides.
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Think of people that are doing porn on their own, people like Paigey from Mindlessly Diapered, I have great affection for her youtube videos, she is able to afford to live her lifestyle and to be very public because she does porn. I haven’t seen much of her work on the porn side so I can’t judge it, but she certainly isn’t hurting herself or anyone else, in fact it has enabled her to help many like myself, it is very comforting to have someone who is attractive to openly discuss this kink or as in her and in my case, lifestyle. I cringe somewhat that I can now say its really a lifestyle for me. I mean I went two full years of not participating in the act of being little or wearing diapers, but it was always in the back of my mind, either as a type of kink or a type of shame, rarely did I let the little side breath or out of the closet I had locked it in, I was not a happy person.
I gave in finally and its like I never stopped wearing diapers, quickly I was wetting in my sleep some nights, and the urge to wear was intensified to the point of surrender. I have always had a hard time accepting my little side, I have lied countless times to myself and to others.
Anyways just my thoughts on porn, it can be good or bad, its not for everyone, but it does have some redeeming factors.
I just can’t relate to porn at all, I see no point with it, to be honest. The media is full of it, and it seems to be the most interesting topic ever as soon as there is an interview with some famous person. The fixation is unbelievable, ugh.
I don’t watch it - nudity doesn’t do anything for me, and just makes me feel kind of awkward.
The sex industry has a lot of issues, and would benefit greatly from better regulation, as well as the ability to unionize worldwide. I think pornographic content has its place - after all, the demand is certainly there - but a lack of government regulation and oversight has made it range from sketchy to downright illegal at times.
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This year (only …promise) I discovered PornHub is free, but I only watch nappy-related stuff on it … (and) nappy stuff that doesn’t progress to full sex. I’ve never been a fan of straight porn and despite being nearly 30 I’ve only ever bought one vanilla hetro’ porn mag’ and part of the reasoning was literally because buying porn with some kind of money has been societyly hyped up into a right of passage!!!
GISW
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