Oh, okay I squirm more now!?

Adult Diapers
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Not looking for advice, just wanting to share some new things I am experiencing!

I have been on and off diapered for two years now, I often wear to bed and I will wear during the day frequently. During the day I will let it flow the moment I feel the urge.

Lately I have noticed the adverse affects of using a diaper. I enjoy beer a few times a week and lately I have been doing the cross legged squirm dance when I feel the urge. It’s becoming more difficult to hold my pee.

For example I brush my teeth before bed (not diapered), I use the toilette after I brush then I will diaper up; but lately as I’m brushing I feel the urge and have to stop and use the toilette ASAP! I will be squirming and trying my best to not dribble as I brush my teeth.

The other day I let out a toot and I had a tiny dribble. (TMI and embarassing but I am sharing for the sake of discussion).

This is new and I have to assume diaper usage is contributing to the urgency of things now…

I am in my late 30s and have NEVER had urinary control issues.

As a lifelong DL I am okay with this in a way, I know, I know…

I can’t wait for the new XL Goodnites, I like using the current L/XL as daytime diapers and use them confidently.

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My long binges have certainly had an impact on my continence. I’m 35 and been wearing over 20 years off and on. I could never regulate like just wearing in the evening. I would take it to extremes like binge wearing for a solid 4 months. Overtime I learned to wet at the slightest urge without clenching my sphincter afterwards. It is this what has had a impact on my continence.

My bladder is very sensitive, I can’t sleep without completely emptying it even if it’s in my nappy. Pretty much have to wear a nappy to bed every night otherwise I’d need to get up and use toilet 3/4 times. This disturbs my sleep. If I’m out and returning home as soon as I walk into the warmth I get an intense need too pee and if I’m not wearing my nappy my bladder spasms and I have large droplets wetting my pants while I run to use the toilet. I have after dribble when using the toilet and also uncontrollable dribbling when having a bowel movement, + post micturition dribble = weak sphincter muscles. This from prolonged disuse of muscles when keeping everything open and peeing at the slightest urge.

I don’t want incontinence but I can’t regulate my nappy wearing. I fear that if I carry on I’ll become incontinent but also this excites me.

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Something similar happen to me I had to go but I was trying to hold a little more and as soon I started drinking water I started to leak

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This definitely is a thing. If I go on a diaper binge when I am off of work I find the same thing the days when I am not wearing. I think it’s because I am trying to be careful and not pee a little and embarrass myself.

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I don’t think it’s related to nappy usage. If you enjoy beer you’ll want to pee a lot.

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Lately I have noticed the adverse affects of using a diaper. I enjoy beer a few times a week and lately I have been doing the cross legged squirm dance when I feel the urge. It’s becoming more difficult to hold my pee.

Well most people are the same when they can’t find a toilet if they have drunk a lot. ? ? ?

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I have had this experience as well, I find I diaper trained my self enough that when I’m wearing and feel the urge to go I just pee with out almost thinking. It’s almost like I get a signal time to go and I just let go instead of holding. Then when I’m done diaper bingeing for the first couple days I don’t have the same hold time as previous and want to empty. I find it’s more of a struggle to hold back until my bladder adjusts again.

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this happens to me usually after leaked. just the feeling afraid of leaking again, would make me hold often tho

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I’ve been 24/7 for a bit over 3 years. What I have noticed is several things that seem to trigger me wanting to pee. I use an insulin pump and test my blood glucose level 5 times/day on average. I happen to keep my test kit on a counter. Whenever I am standing by the counter taking my blood sugar readings I will want to pee and generally do. It’s not a lot; but, it seems to be a normal thing. Also, when I put a fresh diaper on I can be reasonably assured I’ll feel the urge to pee right away. In both these instances the only times I resist the urge is if I also have panties on as I don’t want to pee in my panties. I wear them inside the diaper so I do have to pay attention.

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one thing you could do is pick up some pull-ups in your size, and try wearing them when your not fully diapered, just as a stop gap until you can make it to the toilet, think of it as reverse potty training, unless you want full control back, which would mean just using them as a stop gap while doing some holding exercises until you can’t hold it anymore

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Alcohol and caffeine can also be irritants.

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