My mother keep on going to my other family members and gossip about me getting lectures about my room and it too disorganized and it went from how the argument started to my room and my money say that I don’t pay rent i do it getting on my nerves that she goes and gossip about me to my father and family
And then she says that I do anything but remind u my brother lay down all day it suck when I went to my friend to vent ls like they say oh stop complaining it gets on my nerves
I feel like in my defense everything so one-sided against me and it’s like you know I feel like it’s one-sided I might be at the wrong for yelling and screaming and arguing back but you know I feel like every time I explain what happened it’s like a direct towards me
Honestly I don’t think you will be happy until you find a way out of that home. Can you drive? Do you have a car? A job? If yes I think it’s time to move out, I’ve loved living on my own. Not having to wear cloths if I don’t want to is the best! Start by looking for a cheap place to rent. My relationship with my mother wasn’t all that good til I moved out, now every once in awhile we smoke up and watch the Bears game together, but that will come in time. I have a feeling parents have a hard time seeing their children as adults when they still live together.