New daddy's first playdate: any advice?

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so i got a date set for the first as a daddy. I know I’m alot more caregiver than disciplinarian, and that’s more what he’s looking for. It is expected to get sexual, but also expected to lead to further encounters, and not based solely around sex. We both had shitty parents. We both want to wear diapers. We’re talking a bunch online but not in character. IDK kinda drunk but really excited. Any advice?

Oh-I’m engaged and in an open relationship, so while I expect it to lead to more, he’ll never be my first priority.

I take that back-my fiance’s got less than a year left so that may change if things last awhile, though I expect I’d be in no mood to play a daddy for awhile after though.

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It sounds like you have talked it all through with your Little.

My first time with Issac I did go over bord a wrote every thing down.

But this did help with the trust building and establishing a safe word.

I do recommend the traffic lights though as it give you and your Little one away of indicating your comfort zone and not come out of Little space.

For me the Role of caregive is to keep the adult world from crashing in on the you Little, to support them to keep regress in a child like head space. Or Little space.

It’s your job to answer the door and telephone.

The second part is to ensure that your Little is drinking and eating.

You can have cooking as an activity. Let you Little one make a mess in the kitchen make something with you. Let them be covered in sope bubbles as they (help you do the washing up!)

As long as they can stay regress in the child like head space.

Personally I not into sexual thing and Little space. Sorry I am asexual. But in the same way you wouldn’t have sex with anyone under 18 why would you have sex with someone that is in Little space.

Any way looking after someone is very rewarding and is also fun.

Just remember the amount of trust your Little is putting in you to be looked after.

Let us know how it all goes for you.

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oh yeah the sex and the ageplay are def separate. maybe a lil dirty talk but not in littlespace lol. Thanks for the advice though, that was perfect!

Found this on a different site.

			JuneStar post_id=12882 time=1464675854 said:

		I think these are some unsaid basics to rules for Daddy Doms, Mommy Dommes, or other Caregivers:

You will not refer to yourself as “Daddy,” “Mommy,” or any personalized, “Caregiver” term or treat a little as if you are in an intimate relationship with them unless mutually agreed upon.

You will have your little’s best interest at heart when creating personalized rules for them, their life, and your relationship together.

You will not break or disallow contact out of anger, disappointment, frustration, or as punishment to your little.

You will respect safewords as law to stop or pause a scene to take time to care about your little’s well-being, comfort-level, and personal needs.

You will do your best reassure, comfort, guide, and lead your little through tasks they may be uncomfortable taking on, need help with doing, or have not learned yet to complete.

You will, at times, care for your little as if they are a child–providing additional love, care, compassion, support, tenderness, and patience.

If you have concluded that the relationship is not mutually beneficial any longer (i.e. you would like to break up or end the relationship) you will communicate this as clearly as possible without disappearing, vanishing, or abruptly ending communication without explanation.

You will reinforce the rules, boundaries, and guidelines you have set your little because they were set for good purpose. You will never punish needlessly, and will always provide punishment through mutually agreed-upon methods.

You will not abuse the power you have been given by your little. You will not spank, hit, slap, or abuse them out of anger, rage, or frustration. You will not purposely neglect their needs out of convenience. You will not abandon them when disagreements occur.

You will not purposely lie, fib, or generally be dishonest with your little. This means you will not see other people unless mutually agreed upon, act as a Caregiver to another little unless mutually agreed upon, or keep truth or fact from your little to avoid hurting their feelings or out of personal convenience.

You will respect your little as an equal verses a lower level person despite their childish behaviors, youthful appearance, or innocent nature.

You will not threaten your little with physical, mental, or emotional harm/distress out of convenience. You will not provoke them to being fearful to obtain power or authority over them or their lives.

You will discuss important things with your little prior to making finalized decisions so that you can mutually agree upon the decision.

You will keep your little safe from harm or danger. This includes emotional harm, physical danger, and moments they may fear. You will be their protector, guide, and comfort at all costs because they are important to you.

You will not ask your little give up their lines of communication to friends or family, mental or physical medication, or special interests and hobbies out of personal convenience or lack of understanding.

You will honor your word and promises, no matter how small, to your little to maintain respect and trustworthiness.

You will be patient and indulge your little in their childish naivety the best you are capable by answering silly questions, playing youthful games, and encouraging them to express their true feelings and curiosities without fear of abandonment or ridicule.

You will do your best to recognize when an issue or condition is out of your expertise. You will encourage your little to seek the appropriate help, doctor, or care to ensure they are in the best mental or physical health that they are capable of being. You will not act as if you are a licensed medical doctor when you are not, discourage your little from seeking treatment for various disorders or illnesses, or neglect clear emotional, physical, or mental wounds your little is experiencing out of pride, convenience, or fear.

You will learn about your little prior to entering a potentially dangerous, damaging, hurtful, or frightening scene with them. You will have an understanding of their emotional and physical needs and limitations as well as personal desires.

You will not overstep clearly outlined boundaries or limits. If your little has expressed a hard limit you will respect that as law and will not push that boundary or treat it as a personal challenge despite your own desires. This includes not forcing them to participate in scenes, acts, or situations where they clearly are uncomfortable.

You will not shame them for their sexual or nonsexual interests just because they don’t align with your personal desires or likes.

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