Up until recently I was pretty much impotent, even Viagra didn’t work properly. I would have very week erections if any thing at all. But about 6 months after changing my diet this all started to change with unexpected consequences. I have been waking up sometimes with my nappy stretched out of shape and a wet bed and a couple of times I have woken up peing all over my belly. As much as I love getting back my erections I find it is also a plan.
Do you have this problem and if so what do you do about it? .
I often wear for the arousal, so it doesn’t bother me a bit. I also find it next to impossible to urinate with an erection. I guess that’s not universal? That’s all somewhat moot, however, as I’m not a bed wetter, so the practicality of diapers and the implications of an erection are somewhat different for me.
I have always enjoyed my nappies, they made me feel sexy, (I always hated my abdl-ness at the same time) but now that I have had my prostate removed (cancer) I don’ feel sexy any more. It’s well known that getting an erection, even partial, takes 18-24 months after the operation, it might also never come back. I can have a ‘dry’ orgasm which is ok, but not long lasting and not as fulfilling as it used to be. I’d love to have a tent-poled nappy again!!! But I am happy to still be alive and well and with a very real excuse to wear nappies. I also don’t need to hide them as everyone knows that a prostatectomy makes you incontinent, although it does/should come back in a few months time.
I went Lowe carb / carnivore. I eat very little vegetables and no grains. I originally meant to give it a month as I was very sceptical but within a few days I started to get totally unexpected benefits beside the weight loss. After 3 days stomach blotting disappeared and at about day 7 all pain in my joints was gone for the first time in years. My heart arrhythmia took several months and a few more for my erections to return. Not everyone needs to go carnivore but for me it was the best thing I have ever done for my health.
healthy diet is king. I do also keep it very low in meat, high in veg and fruits, and I carefully watch what type of carb I take (only good quality)…I’m keeping my erections almost as when I was younger in my 20s
I never experienced leaking caused by erections. I always use good quality diapers…Abu Simple or Tena’s are my preference. Maybe you should just experiment with other brands until you find your own perfect fit
My husband uses Men’s Tena briefs whilst long distance driving, they fit snug, no leaks, comfortable and invisible under his trousers. Baby Ja however, wears an adjustable tape nappy which we both like for ease of changing.
Thanks for the suggestions. It seems to be only if I have a duty dream, apparently I can get pretty active according to my wife. And things end up facing the rong way. At the moment I can’t afford to try out different brands as work has dried up with the virus.l think I’ll have to do back to cloth for a while and towels. problem is I only have 2 PULs and 1 plastic pants but I think I had better save the disposables for day time.
If you’re a of cloth/towling nappies user/fan/both you could always pen-cap wrap your p*nis in a thin flannel whatever state it’s in. Alternatively - and I’ve no idea how they feel - but if you are a uncontrollable wetter you could - if at the end of your tether - invest in a chastity encaser, it’s obvious they stop ‘things’ moving around.