My partner, who I love to bits, is a quirky one. We’re actually married but she prefers me to refer to her as my partner or “married partner” rather than “wife”, which she thinks is old fashioned.
She does not identify as DL or AB but wore nappies to age 5 and missed them when she stopped wearing. She’s mildly autistic but super intelligentand holds an academic job. We met at university.
She also wore an adult nappy as part of a University society initiation thing not long after we met, and that was when I took a chance and told her about my DL side.
She will happily wear and wet, and even initiates it, but isn’t keen on wearing anything that is made for children. She is a particular fan of the Tena Noir Super high waist pants which are clearly for grown ups but hold a full wetting.
Last night as we were getting ready for bed (I already had my usual L4 on which I wear most nights), she said to me “I‘m worried about something”. I feared that she had some sort of problem (or worse didn’t like me wearing any more).
I asked her what she was worried about.
She then said “I know I’m all grown up and everything but I’m worried I might have a little accident in the night!”
I now realised she was cutesy role-playing!
She then came up close to me and whispered in my ear “Put a nappy on me!” No prizes for guessing how excited I was.
I obliged and put her in a purple Formacare X3 (which are big on her but still fit).
This morning we were both wet.
On days like this, I feel like the luckiest bloke alive!
She claims not to be a DL, and I’m not going to force labels on her, but crikey she must be somewhere close!
This is 100% not fantasy.
I just want to reassure all heterosexual male DL’s that there is a possibility that you may one day meet a “real, heterosexual, biologically female woman“ that shares your interest in some way.
I think the trick (speaking from 17 years experience with her) is not to overwhelm or force the issue when you do meet one, and the special nappy related moments become all the more special.