I gave up on pull ups but i would like something i can easily take off. I was thinking about balted diapers any advice.
hook and loop fastener types of diapers are good for taking on and off with ease. I went with tykables partly due to the hook and loop “velcro” style fastener, they have ample room in the rear , very pricey though, unless you get the subscription, even then its 2 dollars per diaper
i’ve had that, the dreaded IBS issue on and off recently i find medical diapers like Abena or Depends are better for that if you buy the right size, mainly because they have more loading room in the rump. i wear depends if i have an IBS flair up because that + IC can result in very messy diapers all day
Abena m4 works really well for me.