It’s late but for some reason I’m fired up with these damn thoughts that came out of no where all of a sudden.
I’m mostly a loner sexually, never been a problem but every once in a while I’ll get hit by the occasional loneliness. I haven’t had many relationships. I can count the people I’ve dated on one hand but high school doesn’t count so make that zero lmao.
I just don’t know what to do! No real gay bars I can go to, dating apps suck ass and are sketchy af, can’t try to flirt with anyone because good luck so yea. I just don’t know what to do. I mostly just work a lot and don’t go out and sure that’s an issue but even if I go out I can’t just flirt or I piss off the wrong person and get smashed.
I’m not really sure what to expect by venting here but I feel I could use the conversation.
I think I just deal with so much stress from work and then for some reason my mind has to remind me I’m a faggot and alone.
Your profile says you like your privacy, but my first advice is to change your location to something more descriptive than “USA”. If you live in a small town, then list your geographic region. ADISC isn’t a dating site but somebody local could have just viewed your profile, but had no idea where you are. There’s a 25 y/o guy on the site who lists his location as “middle of nowhere PA” but in fact lives a 5 minute drive from the house I grew up in.
Are you aware of the gay ABDL dating sites diaper-bois.com and dl-boy.com? (I think the latter allows dating.) I found my BF on diaper-bois but only after two bouts on the site. The first time around I did a lot of chatting but never quite connected; the second time I found somebody who lives under a hour’s drive north.
I firmly believe there’s somebody out there for everyone, but you have to stay in the game. Stay positive and, err, keep doing sit-ups (lol), and you never know what might happen.
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