I’m sure this question has probably been asked many times before but I need a little specific help.
Ever since I lost weight 3 years ago, I have had a hard time finding jeans that fit me properly. I’m 5’11’‘, pretty skinny (140lbs approx.) and I have no butt. I can’t wear a pair of pants without a belt. Currently, I feel comfortable in either Levi 511 or 514 with a 30-31’’ waist and a 32’’ length. These fit me well when I’m not diapered.
But now I’m wearing diapers more and more (almost daily) and am trying to find the best jeans to wear over my diapers.
I feel like most jeans nowadays are too low-rise to cover the diaper and also there’s not a lot of room in the crotch. When I wear my normal jeans, there’s little to no real visible diaper outline but because they are low-rise, there’s a good two-two and half inches of diaper that sticks out of the top of the pants. I usually try and wear a shirt long enough but sometimes still have to be careful when bending over so that the diaper doesn’t peak out. I don’t like tucking my shirt in during the warmer months either.
I have a couple paris of slightly bigger pants- a pair of Urban Pipeline Ultra-Flex 32x32 which work pretty good as they are a little roomier in the crotch, and a pair of Lee Riders that no longer has a tag saying what the size is but they are at least 32-33 in the waist and are WAY too big without a bel but can accommodate a diaper well but look way too baggy on me.
It’s almost like if the jeans are too tight, the diaper outline will show and absorbency will be compromised and if the pants are too loose the diaper can become too fluffy and “poofy” looking.
I had the same deal with Levi, I had the 501, legs were too narrow for me in addition for the lack of crotch space when padded.
The only brand that worked for me was Wrangler loose fit straight legs or their carpenter style jeans. Take one or two sizes up when wearing thicker diapers and always wear a belt to prevent the rise from sliding a bit and revealing too much.
Now, everyone has a different fit so instead of just buying, try to fit them first in the store when padded so you get an accurate indication.
I can’t get Wrangler loose fit in Europe, they only sell regular or slim fit here so I always have to order on Amazon or through someone I know in the US
But be warned, the ones on Amazon are not the same quality, they’re specifically mmade cheaper for Amazon, and feel thinner too.
The brand George its regular fit also works really well, same with their carpenter style.
I wear pleated slacks over my diapers, lots of room and good concealment. I learned long ago that blues have that particular issue of being too snug over diapers…and make movement a bit stiff.
I’d probably have to just buy and return them if they don’t fit because I’m legally blind and when I go shopping I’m assisted by a family member and wouldn’t want them finding out by seeing my diaper peaking out when trying them on.
I’m sure they work better but for me, it had to be jeans because all I really wear is jeans and black t-shirt. I’m a rock musician, it’s kind of all I wear.
I have one pair that is at least one, maybe two sizes bigger and they cover the diaper almost completely but they’re noticeably baggier than my usual jeans and i wonder family/friends will notice. They make me look even skinnier than I already am, haha.
These are the Lees that are a size or two bigger. They cover the diaper almost completely but feel huge in m and are noticeably baggier than what I usually wear.
Honestly I’d try shortening up the cuff to a 31 instead of 32 it may help the baggy look. Maybe even try a 30 if 31 is still too long. From my experience, baggy = too long
