Yesterday after work, whilst focusing on diaper training. I switched into a Goodnite from briefs as usual and worked on bladder relaxation in front of the toilet. After relieving myself, by my own mistake, I had forgotten to turn the bathroom fan off prior to opening the door. There I stood, in nothing but a full Goodnite, as my landlord was coming out of his room. He quickly looked downward, and I quickly shut the door. I normally put briefs on over a full diaper when I do things like this since my room is around the corner, but now I can’t help but believe I’ve outed myself to someone who could evict me.
Are you quiet, pay your rent on time, and not smelling up the place? If so he/she would be mental to evict you just because she saw your diaper once. Don’t keep doing it then they might get rid of you, but I feel this is one of those mistakes that doesn’t happen again. A good tenant is a miracle and something to be held onto from what I’ve heard over the years, that has to be doubley so if you live together.
I manage the smell well. It doesn’t smell like diapers in the bathroom, and my soiled ones are taken out on trash day. Since I don’t mess, and only wet even with the heaviest concentrated urine, Febreeze and the scented trash bags do a good job keeping my room from smelling like ammonia. He wears noise cancelling headphones, he’s told me if I make too much noise he will let me know. Rent is always paid too. I normally co find the diaper exposure to my bedroom as I would if I were half naked.
Well, I wouldn’t say anything unless he raises it directly (otherwise assume either he doesn’t know or doesn’t care). If he does raise it, then there are ways of having candid conversations - after all, he can’t really take issue with the diapers per se given that in the context of incontinence, any adverse treatment would constitute discrimination.
Second question, how do I get rid of a trash bag full of diapers that is heavy? I’ve double bagged it and sprayed it down with something that masks, if not kills, the odor? I know I can’t get rid of it all at once because that will make the trash can super heavy to push. It also gets really hot in the garage where the trash is.