I feel pathetic.

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I’m looking up abdl stuff on youtube and I found this. At first I felt stupid but when he started joking my eyes got heavy and I almost went to sleep. I’m starting to think to myself " you must be pathetic as hell to listen to this" why am I so broken.

For those who dont want to watch any of the video, it’s basically a guy whispering things like relax and daddy’s here for you and your going to be okay and the sort.

There is nothing at all wrong with listening to age play ASMR, if this gives you comfort its no more weird than peeing in a diaper, or sucking a paci. To be honest I have considered doing stuff like ASMR for age play and littles.

Now the important thing I want you to think about is, YOU need to LOVE yourself, whisper it to yourself. No more beating yourself up for something that gives you relief from all the bullshit in the world. This is not wrong, what you do doesn’t hurt anyone, and it gives you some peace, comfort. You are not broken, just a little… a little different. Its hard to be different, but that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to be loved. Many of us here have great fulfilling lives and have partners, so listening to ASMR, wearing diapers, or age regression isn’t going to prevent you from finding love and acceptance from others, and you know, when you finally find it, its going to have a greater value than some people can find in vanilla relationships. Its ok to be a bit odd, and the most important thing I have learned is, we got to and I am very serious about this< we got to love that inner child, we got to love our irrational desires, we got to love diaper changes, and we can’t harbor those horrible feelings of being inadequate, wrong, pathetic, and less than.

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I feel better now. I’m going to go to sleep listening to this. I never thought I wanted to be talked to like that. There’s so much I dont know about myself. Lately iv been wanting to go to sleep with a story but this will do.

I love bedtime stories. Good night, sweet dreams.

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You’re not pathetic at all. If ASMR like this brings you joy then that’s amazing! You’re not hurting anyone and deserve to feel happy.

I DO go to bed with a story my mummy reads to me. But I have to be very good and go to bed as soon as she tells me.

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YOU ARE NOT PATHETIC.

Um Who isn’t?

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I’m talking to OP

Who is OP

And why do you feel pathetic? I’m sure you’re not.

Maybe I can help?

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and Maybe I Didn’t.

No He isn’t.

I don’t feel pathetic

Oh my mistake

Everyone is right. You are not pathetic. You are Little. I know the feeling you have. I think so many have been there. You are neither pathetic, nor alone.

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I would suggest Littlelolikat. She’s got a playlist of bedtime stories, though there’s only one available at the moment as, unfortunately, the rest have been set to private for some reason. If you want to give that a try, I know it’s a great video to listen to before bed. Best of luck!

I ended up making a playlist for sleep. It has music that is relaxing and asmr.

That is a bad mentality. Never feel pathetic!! That mentality, along with suicide attempts and then going outright manic, landed me in the psychiatric hospital…That said, Littlelolicat has a great sounding voice. I love her videos, sometimes they make me wonder if I have an AB side.

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This has been a bad year for all. Everyone is stressed out. Do what relaxes you so you can cope.

I agree. And next year isn’t going to get better for several months. If then - with a Clown leading the govt.

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