Are you a dribbler or a flooder? How does your wetting impact you’re nappies capacity? What positions can you wet in?
I’m a dribbler and small gusher. I can keep my sphincter completely relaxed and open so any urine just dribbles out. I wet without clench reflexes. This means my nappy holds up very well from the frequent small wettings and I never leak. I can go about my business in thin all-in-one nappies like Tena Slip Plus (and these are thin and discreet) without fear of leaking. My favourite position is lying down on my sofa watching TV and having a few beers and feel the large gushes fill my nappy. This is when I reinforce the sphincter to remain open without clenching. I have been doing this on and off for 4 years.
Because my sphincter remains completely relaxed and open and I’ve worn a few days/weeks I get a constant urge to pee even when I’ve just dribbled in my nappy. My stream is weaker. Because I’m in the open position I noticed that when I sneeze I automatically clench my sphincter which means its been in the open position without me paying much attention to it. I can also pee in very small drops. I also noticed a small uncontrollable trickling after large gushes. I like these the most.
I like laying down , on the quarantine that I wore more often I would get used and in the end I was peeing kind every 20 min I was also trying to drink more water , now that I am back to work so I am wearing less, so I can pee easily but I have to control
I wish I was more able to have that open feeling. One of my fantasies has always been to be forced to be IC like a little kid again, to weaken my sphincter muscles so much as to not be able to hold those dribbles and little bits.
flooding can be fun, but the idea of becoming actually dependent on diapers, and it not being my “pretend” thing gets me.
has you been training yourself, and do you find it has made your muscles weaker?
Are there such things as weakening excercises? Or are there any safe drugs or herbs which ha e side effects?
I also share the ability to keep the faucet open, smaller gushes w/ dribbling is normal for me, took me a while to get to that point, and if I’m not diapered I can go back to normal fully potty trained mode with no repercussions. I prefer single tape diapers for during the day (abu kiddo’s are my fav) and thicker 4 tape diapers for at night, one of my favorite things is after i get ready for bed at night just lounging around all dry and in my pj’s, then waking up in the morning and seeing / feeling the same thinner dry diaper turn into a thick squishy bulge (tighter pj’s help this look lol)
It depends on the diaper I’m wearing for me. If I’m wearing something with a lot of absorbency (such as a peekabu), I’ll just let loose for my first wetting and then do little spurts for the next 1-2 wettings. For a lighter diaper, maybe half floods or smaller gushes. I’m still having trouble convincing my body that it’s ok to just stay open, but I’m making decent progress.
I’ve been wearing around my apartment but not to work yet, though that might change with my new case coming from ABU. I think it’ll definitely be small spurts and virtually no floods at work, don’t want to risk a leak.
I’m a flooder, I guess. Not that I really know what to compare it to seeing as I only know how my own bladder functions, but whenever I go pee it’s just opening the floodgates, though I try to space it out into several bursts depending on the diaper. I don’t really know what “dribbling” entails, it’s just all at once.
I tend to do a bit of both. I actually enjoy letting it out quite slowly the most as it extends the enjoyment of peeing in a diaper. I have reached the point where I can release my pee slow enough I don’t really feel as though I’m peeing but rather that it’s leaking out. However, in the late evening, I tend to flood my diaper. However, I generally go into the bathroom and pull my diaper down a little so I can see how full it already is. Then I pee into it as I position the diaper to absorb as much as possible without leaking. If I don’t feel as though the diaper I have on can take another full bladder, I change into a fresh diaper before flooding it. I don’t dare sit down for a minute or two so the diaper has an opportunity to evenly absorb the pee.
I don’t hold , when I get any urge at all i go so most all my wettings are small, as I have said on other threads asking the same thing … go little and go offend
I don’t wear often, so my first wetting always starts with dripplets before going into full flood mode.
The second wetting is different depending on the mood. Sometimes I just let go as soon as I can pee, while other time I hold it for another flood.
After that I just let go when I can. Though there have been times when I did save it for one last heavy wetting that I do on the toilet before taking off the diaper.
A bit of everything really. When I stand it dribbles out or small puddles.
When I sit the sphincter is pressed tight and there’s a pressure build up. Once I move so it flows again there’s about 100ml or so coming out, which sometimes leaks when the front of the diaper is pressing against my jeans.
When sleeping the uncut part of the sphincter is clenched and I wake up multiple times to turn over so it flows out strong, but no more than 100- 120ml or so.
When walking I shoot off a small puddle regularly, the rest comes out when I stand still.
I still unconsciously hold in but when it occurs to me that I have to wet, I just let go…the one thing is that I can meter it out, restrict the flow so it doesn’t gush out and just flood…so I don’t pool in my diaper and/or leak.
I like to wet my diaper at the first twinge that I have to go, so I really think its somewhere between dribbling and flooding. What I am beginning to like more is when I try to stop the flow but it just keeps coming out. I am not incontinent but perhaps years of wearing diapers for enjoyment is producing some compromised control. I actually like that.