I want to break the news to my wife but I can’t find the right way to explain it. I’m not into the AB stuff. I just like the feeling of wearing and using diapers. Sometimes it’s sexual but only on occasions. Sometimes I try to explain to myself why I like diapers but I can’t. I just like them. Anyone else feel the same way?
Take a piece of paper and write down 5 reasons why you like diapers, this will create focus and help you better explain yourself without segways into different things
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Thanks I’ll have to give it a try
For you, these desires ‘feel’ perfectly natural but, intellectually, you can’t explain what causes them in socially acceptable ways, not even to yourself. Your diaper desires are actually the result of a natural process known as imprinting. Unfortunately, very few people know what imprinting is, so that knowledge won’t be of much help when trying to explain it to someone else, even if you understand it, yourself, and accept it to be the most likely cause. The difficulty arises because most people have a fixed set of beliefs about how things like evolution, genetics, and psychology, are ‘supposed’ to function.
I find it helpful to write down a letter explaining things. I would probably no tell her using writing in your case but you can write to help you know what to say or how to clearly say what you want to get a cross.
I wish you all of the best in telling her.
If you’re not into AB stuff and want to post more questions or opinions about diapers in the future, you might want to post it in the diaper talk section rather than adult baby.
I don’t think I would recommend handing her a letter. Never put something in writing that can later be used against you. In the wrong hands a letter like that could destroy someone.
Start off by putting out feelers. Maybe if you’re desperate to pee on a car ride, say man I wish I had a diaper right now, they would like make life so much easier sometimes. Something like that. Watch for her reaction. If you’re out doing yard work, bust into the house and run to the toilet, then come out and say something like geez my bladder is the size of a peanut, I’m going to need depends soon. You might even have a few “accidents” to reinforce your joking statements. If your feelers don’t make her lose her mind, then just ask her if what she would think if you started to wear a diaper on long road trips or while doing yard work. If your feelers are met with negativity, you know that diapers will be something you will need to keep private for the rest of your life.
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Kitty has some good recommendations. Another would be to somehow introduce a conversation about kinks. You read something or heard something and it got you wondering if either of you ever thought of anything kinky. See if you can get her to describe something kinky that she has thought of. If you can get her to open up on her possible interests then you can start to hint about something you thought about. This way you are both on somewhat the same level as opposed to you just being the kinky one and her possibly looking down on it.
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You sound a lot like me. I just like the comfort of wearing and it is also somewhat sexual. I just started wearing a little over a hear ago at age 43. I have been married 21 years. I didn’t prepare very well before telling my wife, and it didn’t go so well. She seems okay with it now, but we don’t talk about it.
I am curious how old you are and how long you have been married. You are the only one who knows your relationship with your wife, so you will know best how she might react. Just keep in mind that if you think it is weird, she will probably think it is even weirder. Don’t expect her to react how you hope she will. Also, don’t get upset with her no matter how she reacts. It will likely be a shock to her. Maybe you can prepare her a bit by gradually hitting at your desires in a roundabout way.
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I am on board with Kitty’s ideas. She saved me a little bit of typing. Good luck !
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