It hasn’t happened to me, but it was close to happening. I ordered a pack of Cushies not too long ago, and my mom received them from the UPS guy. Luckily she read the name on the box and didn’t try to open it. I told her they were some graduation gifts for friends. My heart was beating really hard that day.
Never happened to me. I have a feeling my family members have gone through some of my personal belongings and unintentionally came across my things, but it has never been brought up. I think they’re embarrassed and confused because they don’t like discussing anyone’s sexuality in the house (which is absolutely respectable).
Likewise with packages, nobody has ever even dared to open each other’s packages. I have had my mom sometimes open my mail if it’s something we’ve discussed and she knows I’m expecting something specific from an agency, but I’ve sternly reminded her that doing so is illegal since I’m an adult and even if it’s basic mail, I have the right to my privacy. No arguments about it. She will ask me what’s in the mail and I choose what and how much to tell her.
If anyone questions my packages or why I don’t open it right away, all I say is, “I know what it is and it doesn’t need to be opened right now. It can wait.” That’s the end of the conversation. Sometimes I’ll open it in front of people if I know it’s nothing ABDL related, “Aww bro, my new headphones came in, look at this shit!” and if I choose not to open something then I just act like it’s not even there and continue what I was doing/saying. Don’t draw attention to it and people get the hint (at least in my family).
IF anyone opened my package and questioned me about it, I would plainly tell them they have no business opening my personal belongings and that it is illegal to do so. If they are persistent about the topic I would tell them, “Look, you think you wanna know, but you really don’t want to. If you are absolutely curious, I will give you this one chance to get answers to your questions, then we’re not discussing this anymore because it doesn’t involve you.”
I don’t play that shit.
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What’s their excuse? It doesn’t matter who’s what in the home, mail is inviolable. My parents, roommates and landlords were many things but never, ever did they open my mail. That is something a person simply does not do.
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I would never order diapers (or anything ABDL-related) to a home, where my parents or someone else would live… I once had a paci… forgot to put it in the drawer where nobody looks… well… small discussion started… never ever again! At the moment, i live alone, so no Problem ^^
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Well, nothing to report here, but my mom isn’t really someone who cares about privacy, if it’s a letter or someting else adressed to her place with my name on it she just opens it…also she didn’t care about privacy when it comes to my room, so no place for me to hide anything.
That’s why I never could try out babystuff until I moved to my own place 14 years ago^^
One time something strange happened tho, I was ordering a dogs collar for me (well, furry testing phase you know), and for some reason the package/letter was delivered to my moms place - it had my adress on it, from 100km away, my zipcode, everything…until this day I have absolutely no clue how that could be delivered to my moms place…luckily she wasn’t home when the package arrived.
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