Girlfriend likes wetting, but not being in a wet diaper.

So as my girl and I have been exploring this kink. She has decided that she likes to wet diapers, she likes the naughty aspect of it. But she doesn’t like being in it after she has wet it. Any ideas on how to make her more comfortable? Especially when the purpose of some diapers is to see how full you can get them, it kinda sucks she doesn’t want to stay in them for long.

be happy that she is willing to explore this with you, some people just don’t like sitting in a wet diaper, which is fine, I wouldn’t push the issue, however, i also wouldn’t have her wasting premium diapers if she’s only comfortable with one wetting and done, to save some money, you could try lower absorbency diapers, or just reusable, superundies have some great products and they can easily be tailored to absorbency

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Super Undies feel like wearing a diaper, but are actually more comfy. This could be a good option to wet them and then wash them. Also, since they can pull down easily, she could use the toilet until she is ready to take them off, and then wet them before taking them off.

If she likes disposable diapers, Northshore Supreme Lites wouldn’t be super expensive for one wetting. Still good quality and comfy.

Yeah I don’t wanna push it. I’m more worried that when we get to the more expensive diapers that she is gonna wanna change sooner than the diaper needs and we’ll be wasting it. So I wanna find maybe something she can still use but won’t feel bad for only using it once. She likes the wetting aspect, just not the sitting in it part.

Guess I’ll have to go look into the Northshore supreme lites!

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What diapers is she currently using?

Currently she likes to wear goodnites xl.

I find that after wearing disposables, used to wear only cloth, a lot of the time I dont feel wet, so it shocks me that she even can tell, unless its the warmth. I dont know what to say, does she wear them long enough so they bulk up?

I think if she would try one of the premium disposables, say a Megamax or Betterdry or one of the ABDL diapers, it wouldn’t feel as soggy after the first wetting and she might not find it as uncomfortable.

I’ve got it! I didn’t think of it immediately, but I reckon I’ve got a really good solution that your girlfriend should try!

Nappy liners!

They’re used with traditional cloth nappies – to keep moisture away from the skin, and to contain solid waste so it can be flushed away with the liner (for easier, less smelly laundering).

Anyway, I once bought eco-friendly nappy liners made from bamboo fibres. They came in a continuous perforated roll so it was easy to use a double-length for adult diapers.

They felt really smooth and comfortable… but I hated them because I had absolutely zero sensation of being wet!

They’re basically the same as a disposable diaper’s “stay dry” layer, but much thicker. Wetness just passes through, leaving the skin feeling dry.

If your girlfriend is willing to try them (lucky you!) I think this might help her feel a lot more comfortable… So good luck!


A random web search brought up this Amazon listing – just to show you the kind of thing I’m talking about:

CannyMum, Bamboo Nappy Liners, Pure Baby Wipes, XL Pack 200 Sheets, Chemical Free, Biodegradable, Compostable, Plastic Free: Amazon.co.uk: Baby
Great prices on your favourite Baby brands plus free delivery and returns on eligible orders.

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Have fun doing diaper changes… For some, the change is a fun part of the experience.

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When your product performs so well people hate it :joy:

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Never heard of this before but I’ll have to give them a shot!

Okay here are the results! She tried them and had given me a thumbs up! Looks like they work great thank you!

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More opportunity to change her wet diapers, what could be better than that!

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You could try diapers that have a very high absorbency and make her feel dry even after wetting, but thats just a thought

On the opposite side of the spectrum you could get very cheap, thin medical diapers that dont hold much, so she can still wet them, and not have to use up as much money

If she wears goodnites, they are relatively inexpensive and don’t hold much anyway. I agree with others that you may want her to try better diapers to see if she is more comfortable with multiple wettings.

In the end though, enjoy her wearing even if it is only for short periods. That is better than many of us get.

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