Last night, I was sifting through diaperbois since I started my account last weekend. I’ve been on there a lot and have been looking through to find local abdls. While I was going through it, I stumbled upon a profile and noticed the person in the photos looked very familiar. He was outside, wearing a diaper with his back turned away from the camera and I knew it was my friend because of his hair. And also there was another picture on his profile he was smiling in but cropped his face from his nose up so his eyes wouldn’t be in the pic. So I know it really is him. I already had my suspicions he was also into diapers. Because one night I came over to his house and we watched a movie and he was showing me a meme on his phone and he got a notification for a YouTube video from an ABDL channel. I never said anything to him about it and it’s been a little over a year since that happened. But now I’ve found his profile.
I’m really curious if I should talk to him and tell him that I found his profile which would also out me as ABDL. It would be nice to actually talk to him about this stuff. But I dunno if he’d be comfortable talking to me about it or not. Which would be fine. But it does kinda take pressure off of me knowing that a very good friend of mine is also into this stuff. How should I go about this situation? Should I tell him I found his profile and that I’m also ABDL? And if I do, how do I open that conversation up?
Perhaps you could contact his profile on Diaperbois and find a way to drop a hint that it’s you. If there’s an inside joke or something you two have together that you could share, it would be a somewhat subtle way of letting him know you recognized his profile and are already on the same page as him as an ABDL.
I would tell him about yourself before mentioning that you found his profile. Outing him may putt him on the defensive. Open up yourself and let him open up also. Even tough you know you should avoid forcing him to open up. The way to avoid this is to open up yourself and to him and let him do as he wishes.
I’m not exactly sure how this would go, I’m not super super close with him, but close enough to where he is my friend and we consider each other buds. It really depends on how much he is willing to share with me and if he’d be willing to wear in front of me. He is in a relationship and his boyfriend might not take too kindly with someone else wearing with him, even if its not in a sexual way. So I’m not sure unless I actually talk to him about it, but if I do, I might message him instead of cornering him about it when meeting in person
Will do! It’s just a matter of being brave enough to message him on the site and revealing that side to him, which I’ve never done with ANYONE that knows me personally. So wish me luck lol
So what i would do if your name is something common like Steve, joe, john, etc… is send a message, ‘hey I’m from XXX town too, always nice to know I’m not alone, if you ever want to meet and get a coffee, drink, bite to eat let me know. By the way, name’s. (Insert your first name)
Now if your name is unique like mine is, you may have to abstain from using your whole first name, maybe a nickname. Reason being is if it is your friend you want them to know who you are, but if it isn’t your friend, you don’t want them figuring out who you are by just your first name
