I took your guys advice and my friend got me some prunes!
Storytime…..
I was just in my living room witch my friend having a chat then I start to feel the need to mess I took some of your guys advice with the prunes and the trust and a headspace so I crouched down and pushed, it took a little bit of tie but I could slowly feel it come out then when I thought I was done a whole lot more came through and for a second I forgot I had messed and sat down on my bum so it all squished let’s just say it took a lot of wipes that my friend had to clear up!! Let me know your first messing stories
Congratulations on your milestone. (It still seems strange to say that about “that”!) You’re fortunate to have a friend be with you to help in this moment.
In answer to your question: I have no memories of my first time. It’s not a big part of my ABDL experience, but I have done it a couple dozen times, more or less.
It’s pretty amusing to say (basically) “I just learned how to poop!!” But I totally get it. These experiences remind us that controlling our own bodies isn’t something we can take for granted. My first time pooping in a diaper (since babyhood) was only about six years ago. Physically it was pretty easy, but convincing myself that it was ok to do that in my diaper… Definitely an effort!
I do enjoy messing now, although I don’t really enjoy being *messy. *As a result, it’s maybe a once-a-month thing for me.
This is in no way a criticism of those that like to mess, full respect to you for doing what makes you happy, but from a personal perspective, it really does nothing for me, the smell the clean up it really isn’t for me and then heavens above, imagine getting a mess on one of my pretty dresses
Love you all, keep doing what you’re doing and be happy
Thats awesome!! I know this is an older post, but I just wanted to warn you to be careful about messing your diapers and staying in them for too long as doing that can increase your risk of an infection or a rash. Ive heard its worse if you mess and then pee afterwards, but im not sure as ive never had any issues with my messing, though I normally dont stay in my diapers for too long after doing so because my bf is too bothered by the smell, when I have the chance to be home alone and the urge hits, I stay in it for ~30 minutes max and then get cleaned up in the shower and in a fresh diaper.
I also noticed getting red spots quite quickly when staying in a messy diaper. Quite interesting that our body produces something that can be so bad for your skin haha