I am physically disabled, but in no way mentally disabled.
But with the right person, I am willing to ”go full retard” to quote a certain movie. Willing to relocate anywhere within the United States, for someone who wants to make this a PERMANENT reality.
The idea is, that instead of a sports wheelchair like I use now, be put into a more hospital-style wheelchair or even an adult stroller. Where someone else has the ”control” as to when and where I go (hard to do in a heavy hospital wheelchair, impossible in an adult disability stroller).
There is a ”method to my madness”. This allows the Caregiver/Daddy to dress me as they wish (perhaps for easier access), I would communicate in a ”vocabulary if sounds” we would create (”hungry”, ”diaper is full”, etc.) that nobody else would understand. Plus perhaps even some plastic magnifying reading glasses and a helmet, to complete the ”special needs” look (plus the lenses would make me ”functionally blind”, especially with higher magnification levels of the reading glasses).
In public places like a Mall, perhaps in the direct center around the busiest spot my diaper may need to be ”checked” by my ”caregiver” putting their hands into my pants. If my diaper is wet or messy, it would have to be changed (otherwise it may overflow and soil my clothing).
A ”family restroom” in such a public place just will not do. Need to use the regular restroom (be it a Mall, a Theatre, a Stadium) and even if using a ”disabled stall” for a wheelchair, two adult males, and to put me down on the bathroom floor to change me, the door of the stall most likely won’t be able to be closed…so the activity would be visible to anybody who would walk into the restroom. Especially if I mess my diaper, and my penis needs to be cleaned. I might have an erection or a discharge from my penis (I am not huge by any means, 4” when erect and cut, but public exhibition where it seems ”normal” but still exposed).
With an ”adult baby” that looks like a person who is more into a ”fetish”, such activity would be frowned upon by the general public.
But for a ”wheelchair confined retard” who can’t ”speak” more than ”grunts and sounds”, ”can’t feed themselves in a restaurant” so must have an adult bib and be fed…fully Diapered and in ”non-descript” clothing that will not reveal this as a ”fetish” (Tykeables Shortalls and solid color onesies, athletic shorts, polo shirts…are fine since they are ”age-appropriate” for an incontinent physically and mentally disabled adult…colors such as pinks, pale yellows, and baby blues are fine…the more ”baby prints” may ”reveal the secret”).
In ”public” I can NEVER do anything for myself, after all, my mental faculties won’t allow me to do anything for myself. Only ”involuntary” actions such as if I become erect in public due to the sensations in my diaper, I might touch myself like someone with severe Down Syndrome might (not knowing that it is wrong).
As far as the relationship ”behind closed doors”, we can discuss that. We can be ”real” or ”continue the fantasy”. I am fully independent, but for the right person I am willing to become FULLY dependent.