Yesterday morning I went shopping at Walmart. On the way there I drank a whole large coffee. Well when I was looking at sneakers I had to really go so much that I was grabbing myself and since I was wearing a pullup I always just release a little at a time and that always relieves some pressure. Well this time it would not stop and I wet full force. Real Fit for Mens do not take a full on wetting well at all so the crotch of my jeans were totally wet as well as mostly down one leg and halfway down the other. My butt was wet as well as the backs of my legs. Because of the pullup only a few drops of pee got on the floor so that was cool. I said screw it and continued shopping because it was early in the morning and it wasn’t busy at all. If you saw me there was no doubt that I wet myself. Do you know that it was like no one noticed? If they did no one seemed to care. I used the self check out and there were 3 female employees there talking and no one even batted and eye. As I walked passed them out the door I didn’t even hear a giggle. I’ve had wet spots before so I don’t even care but this was a full on wetting through my pullup and my jeans were very wet. Amazing! Now I really don’t care if I have any accidents in public as where I live now no one knows me and the chance of running into friends is really not even likely. That’s pretty much why I don’t care. If I did though all I have to do is tell them I’ve been having issues but I’d prefer that didn’t ever happen.
Incontinence is more expected them we like to believe. Everybody has had a incontinence experience even if they don’t admit it. I think teenagers and young adults can torment and judge but anybody older will understand.
Totally agree with you on that. I think its called maturity on older persons. Here I am pushing 60 and I’ve done it in the car and had to walk across a busy parking lot at a McDonald’s with dry clothes and a diaper and change in the men’s room. Nobody seemed to notice.
Yeah I guess there are advantages to getting older huh?
Some. Just have to get past the senior moments, fallen arches, and hemmoroids.
next time you should wear a real diaper or wear molicare premium brand pull-ups
Work on your kegals again so no matter how badly you have to pee you can still control the flow. The fact you stated: “I always just release a little at a time and that always relieves some pressure.” would indicate you are not totally ic and strengthening your muscles might help. :(y):
I don’t wear or trust pull ups. They don’t hold enough. I would only wear pull ups if I had a leak or dribble issue.
Always use the diapers that are high enough capacity & absorbency rate for your needs in public.
It’s rare I use pull-ups for more than just temporary … but if I was inclined to go in public in a pull-up, I have ones that can handle my heavy incontinence and not leak out.
Glad it went smoothly for you, given the circumstances. I tried several different depends, the expensive ones too. I’m very disappointed that they cannot handle an emergency wetting.
About a year ago I was shopping and saw a man walking around Wal-Mart, he had unmistakably wet himself. I was padded and wanted to approach him, like a Jehovah Witness spreads the word of god, and tell him about the better life one can achieve with ABDL Diapers 
Obviously I looked away and minded my own business.
And I think this is what most people do. Isn’t it ironic though, that when you have an untied shoe, everyone mentions it?
I try not to drink coffee on my way out and about. I only wear a pad and it can hold a full wetting. One. Otherwise, I’m looking for restrooms as soon as I enter a building.
It came on so fast and I totally miscalculated. I also usually do wear a diaper if I’m going to be out for a while but this was a quick trip to grab a few things.