So I was letting my mommy’s brother use our amazon prime so he can watch movies on his tv. Apparently he wanted to try watching on his phone too and logged into amazon on his phone. We got my second ABDL related package yesterday and amazon likes to send alerts so you know it was delivered.
Well, he got an alert and while the box is discreet, the details of the items enclosed aren’t always as…discreet.
He told me yesterday he didn’t know what me and sister do and doesn’t want to know, he just wants it off his phone. ( He mentioned something about amazon reccomending a teddy and that’s where I zoned out. I start stammering and before I know it I’m out his door running/fast walking to my house to find safety in my bed. Haven’t talked to him since yesterday as mommy spent the rest of the night comforting me and helping me calm down.
mommy is handling it today since she has to drive him to the bank but I’m nervous to even be seen by him at this point. He wasn’t exactly mean about it from what I can remember but I always feared moments like this. I really feel he shouldn’t of said anything and should of figured out how to get it off his phone if he put it on. Out of mommy’s entire family he is the only one who didn’t know (or at least pretended he didn’t know until now) so to be confronted on it was panic inducing.
I really thought I was past being embarrassed about this but was caught completely off guard and ended up crying last night because of it. Abdl being taboo is such bulls**t when it is one of the most caring and loving relationship styles out there.
You can invite people to Prime by sending them some email invite and they get prime for free from your account but it will be on their account. Now I no longer have to use my Husband’s account for Prime. I added myself to his prime by sending an email to myself and that was how I added myself and now only my own order show and I have my own wishlist and shopping lists and no more his.
Also your brother sounds illiterate, he can just get his own account and drop your Prime. Problem solved, no longer on his phone.
On a related note, my kids offered to let me in on their Netflix. For a very similar reason, I declined; my trends would be open for all to see. I don’t watch porn or otherwise-suggestive/racy material but I don’t want any conclusions made about me, unfairly based on what my kids or grandkids find and learn regarding my account details/history.
Discretion being the better part of valor (and because I am older now), I would have my own accounts, as Netflix isn’t expensive at all. Discretion and harmony are two important things for me as I somehow try to privately reconcile watching both Star Trek: the Original Series and True and the Rainbow Kingdom. Quiet, please, I’m watching ST’s “The Naked Time” and Lt. Riley’s “I’ll Take You Home Again, Kathleen” is up…and I wanna learn the words. *Shhhhh… *
I was actually at his place watching the original Star Trek idk the other stuff you mentioned but I’ll look them up later. I can relate about not wanting people to know about your show preferences, that was actually the plan of letting him use amazon because we dont use the video streaming but as I see now, your option would of been better.
UPDATE: mommy took him to the bank/grocery shopping and they talked it out. He felt very bad about it and apparently cried too. he didn’t mean to put me on the spot like that but man did that suck. Im cooking lunch now for mommy but maybe I’ll make some for him too. I might have mommy give him him plate though…idk if I can look him in the face today.
Thank you everyone, it was nice to get this off my chest and the advice given.
Sorry Punku, because of my 16 year old son who doesn’t know any of this I have to be very careful as well. You have just given me something else to think about. I am with you, this is a very loving way to relate and why we have to be afraid of others knowing really makes me feel bad. Momma2moosey makes me feel great about all of this she takes away the shame, but when I have to cover up and sneak around my house the shame rears its ugly head again.
Eh I had something go through customs from cuddlz that got open by border agents. They didn’t bother repackaging it. Arrived at my door torn open for everyone to see.
idk the other stuff you mentioned but I’ll look them up later. I can relate about not wanting people to know about your show preferences, that was actually the plan of letting him use amazon because we dont use the video streaming but as I see now, your option would of been better.