OK so, I’m generally curious about this as I want to apply it to myself when I’m on my own and able to be ABDL all the time at home. While sleeping and Diapered in bed or your crib do you find yourself wetting/messing involuntarily? (but not due to incontinence). Or do you have to be awake to do that? Like say you have to go in the middle of the night, but obviously you’re not getting up to the toilet because you have a Diaper on, do you wake up to use the Diaper or does it just naturally happen?
Also does it wake you up like a real Baby or are you able to sleep in a used Diaper until morning then get up and change? Finally do you change yourself or have a mommy or whoever takes care of you change you? Like I’m wondering if ABDLs go for full authenticity and cry in the middle of the night to be changed by someone else or wake-up and change themselves. Or are they able to wait it out and change/get changed in the morning?
I’m wanting to know because I’m generally curious as to what sleeping in Diapers is like for ABDLs as I am not to the point where I can just wet/mess my Diaper while sleeping. I also want to apply what I have learned about other ABDLs to myself someday too. If it were up to me my own place would have a nursery, I’d stay Diapered all the time at home and use the Diapers, my toilet would get no use from me (unless someone came over they’d use it, and I’d have to use it). At night I’d sleep in my crib and if I needed to use the bathroom at night I wouldn’t even get up (not even to change) I’d just go in the Diaper and fall back asleep, then change in the morning.
However, I’m not sure if there are health and safety risks to staying in a dirty Diaper all night. So, please ADISC Community help answer this question that I ponder almost every night. What is the situation for ABDLs at night while sleeping? Wet/mess? No wet/mess? Voluntary/involuntary? Change right away/change in the morning? Change yourself/get changed by someone else? Ask them to change you/or just cry like a real Baby to let them know you need to be changed? Do ABDLs even cry like real Babies? So many ABDL questions before bed. Please help answer them, thanks and as always…stay Diapered and never grow up, stay a Baby!!!
P.S. The poll is only for yes answers. If your answer is no just put in the comments no that you don’t wet/mess at night. I ran out of options and was unable to add no as a choice, sorry, but I guess there is a limit to how many choices I can add.
i very rarely soil myself, day or night. however I’m bladder incontinent, so if i wake up at any point in the night and i’m wet i get up, wash and change. Once i’m awake and wet I can’t settle until i’m in a fresh, dry nappy. Or as the old expression goes “I slept like a baby, woke up every 3 hours wet and crying” and whilst i don’t cry, if i am hydrated i can pee 2 or 3 times during the night.
I am not incontinent and wet and soil my diapers for the intense pleasure it provides. Since I am not incontinent I wet at night while awake/half awake and always know that I am wetting and simply fall back to sleep until the morning. When I am up in the morning I soil my diaper usually during or just after my morning coffee. I check email, ADISC, and maybe a few other sites while sitting in my messy diaper. Currently enjoying the pleasure of sitting in a full diaper. I like to stay in the messy diaper for a little while and change before my wife wakes up. She knows I mess my diapers but I do not subject her to my stinky diaper.
I’ve been IC my whp;e life - it’s always been unusual for me not to wet while sleeping (not unheard of - but very rare!). Sometimes it wakes me up, others it does not. I also have issues with my hands, making it impossible to change my own diaper (kind of annoying, as it’s not noticable with most things - but that is one where it is - just looking - you likely would not notice unless you were a specalty doctor, or one told you exactly what to look for!) My wife takes care of that - if it dose not wake me up, but she happens to get up for whatever reason - and notices - depending on her mood, how tired she is ex. - she might wake me to take care of it right away, or just let me sleep.
I wish I could wet/mess while sleeping! Often, to recreate the feeling, I will wet just before I go to sleep. As in, instead of going to the toilet after I brush my teeth, I lay down and wet my nappy. I change first thing in the morning but I wish I had a Mummy to change me.
When I stay in a messy diaper for several hours I make sure before I get diapered that I have a liberal amount of Baby Lotion to protect my skin. This also seems to help with cleaning up after staying in a messy diaper. I have managed to avoid skin irritation by doing this. The most significant risk is when the mess comes into contact with the urethral opening which can result in the development of a UTI. When I know my mess has spread to the front of my diaper I promptly change and clean thoroughly.
I do constantly wet and mess involuntarily in my sleep. I usually just go back to sleep if I wake up even if the diaper is wet and soiled. I love the feeling anyway and it relaxes me. I don’t get much sleep as it is and take it when I get it. If I get up for a change, I won’t be able to go back to sleep. I have been changing myself mostly because I don’t have anyone to do it usually but want a daddy to do it.
This depends on what is meant by extended periods of time as well as how you personally react to pee/poop.
I have pretty tough skin so I can stay in a wet diaper for several hours without any problems. I change more often with poop but I have never had a problem with poop either.
However, based on other threads on ADISC, there are people that need to change almost immediately or risk a rash or UTI.
Some people need creams to help prevent rashes and other don’t (I don’t use any creams).
I think it would also depend on whether you wear 24/7 or less often. I only wear occasionally.
The bottom line - Yes there is health and safety risks to your skin but the risk factor is different for everybody.
Guess I won’t know until I stay in Diapers for an extended period of time. Currently I only wear my Diapers, Onesies, and Suck my Pacifier while my Dad is at work. When I’m on my own I’m gonna wear at home all the time and actually use the Diapers. I can’t use them until the trash is full and I’m alone so, that way I can dispose of them immediately without my Dad knowing or them stinking up my room or the kitchen.
I can’t really say that I’ve messed my diaper while I’m in a deep sleep but I can say that I’ve woken up to the feeling that I’m messing in my diaper. Its like that’s what waking me up. Other then maybe giving a little push or two I don’t really move or do anything. I just let what’s already happening, happen. Then drift back off to sleep.
Yes, I fill my diaper when I’m sleeping. It’s completely involuntary. Not every night but enough. I rarely change during the night. I’m very sleepy. The only time I change is when I had a loose poop. Thankfully it doesn’t happen a lot. I’m IC.
I don’t mess but I do wet my diapers at night without waking or having any awareness that I wet myself. I wake in the morning and my cloth diapers are wet, but my bed is dry because I wear rubber pants over my diapers. My wife changes me at some point in the morning after we have had our coffee.
I don’t mess, but I wet voluntarily before I go to sleep, then after I’ve had my morning coffee, I take a shower to get myself cleaned up before getting changed and dressed.