So out of curiosity I was wondering what peoples limits or thresholds are. Have you noticed as time passes you limits change? Have they become looser, or have they become more stringent? Or are there things you swear you would never do that you find yourself doing now, and the inverse, is there anything you used to do that now is a limit?
~Hamm
I would never have thought that I would be here on this website one day.
I wet my diaper but to do anything more would be beyond my limits - I strongly disliked messing the one time I tried it and even the thought of it grosses me out now.
I have met up with other ABDLs (including via this site) many years ago but I don’t think I would be comfortable to do so now. Although the meets were always as adults I have worn a diaper for most of these and when in a private setting ABDL clothing/ pacis etc before but that was my limit, I wouldn’t have been able to let another ABDL change me, to engage in age play or anything further. It’s possible I would have been able to engage in that with a significant other but I didnt feel like I could go on a ‘playdate’ or engage in intimate activities like changing with other just because they’re also ABDL. I also had no interest in changing others or taking on a ‘Mummy’ role so I guess that would have been a limit too.
However now I think my limits are stricter and meet ups of any kind would be out of bounds for me now, if I did meet-up with someone I definitely wouldn’t want either of us to be wearing a diaper (unless the other was genuinely IC) and would want to stay away from anything else that might be seen as ABDL. I definitely wouldn’t be up for engaging in some of the things I did when meeting up with others years ago even though they were probably pretty mild as far as ABDL meet ups go.
I think my limits in terms of what I do by myself has been about the same. I don’t really like to branch out and try new/unknown things. My limits with sharing other stuff with other people depends on how comfortable I am with the person I am talking to. I almost never give out my last name to anyone since it can be traced back to things like address and social media accounts. With sharing pictures of myself I have gotten more lenient with it but I try to always careful about it
I’ve recently become interested in being a sissy boy in nappies, which is a complete change for me.
Do you think this is kind of a natural evolution of you interests or in the back of your mind have you been working towards this?
That depends on how you look at it.
As one becomes more open/accepting of their kinks I feel the more then might be willing to explore them and other similiar or even new ones.
Many yea ago I would not have been as comfortable about things like wearing outdoors or buying in shops but yesterday I sauntered into Boots and bought a pack of Tena Noir for my partner. I didn’t even bother to bag them, just carried them to the car afterwards. Totally nonchalant and stress free.
When I first bought adult nappies from Boots age 12 my heart was pounding and I was sweating. It took ages to muster the courage to pick them up, I had the exact money for the sample packs so I didn’t need to wait for change and I had a backstory rehearsed in case the shop assistant quizzed me about who they were for.
This so reminds me of myself when i went to buy plastic pants in my late teens over 40 years ago.
pun intended 
Definintalet not a pum, do you think i would pamper to readers who **attend **my page? ::p:
I am open to new experiences. And the more I researched what it is to be intouch with my self. And the hold being a Little thing.
I found out about other kinks. Befor everyone gets upset with me age playing is a kink and regression in a form of meditation went done right gives you a greater understanding of your self.
And being a Little is something I have to live with it not a choice for me.
Ok hopefully I’ve avoided time out on that one.
But what get me is when dominants fund me on fetlife or some other platform and don’t read my profile, but just presume that because I am a little I would want to be spanked. Or they can just take the role of mistress of Master.
I am not a slave or a play thing, I am a Little.
Sure, I want to experience new things all the time like being fed baby food in a highchair, playing on the floor under a baby gym, or a baby moble in bed/crib. Going to Capcon so Katie can have four days to totally be a two-year-old.. There’s so much I want to do, it’s endless.
I would love to have 48 hours in Little space do they have Trusted Bigs.
I would love to be kept as my true self like this.
My best friend is taking me “if” I ever go so the whole idea that Katie can come out for four days blows me away. Katie considers my best friend her mommy. I would never want anyone I didn’t know to change Katie. They may have trusted people there, but no thanks
Yea I have to know the person and know that they are going to be comfortable about change me. I also need to know that they understand that I am a mischievous 3/4 year old and they are able to treat me as such.
I think for me it’s is the key before I let people do things to me. They have to accept that they are looking after a toddler. If it is something that you wouldn’t do with a real infant. Then I probably not going to be into it eather.
However talk to me and treated me like some one that is pre school and you have and my trust. Then then a caregive has a wide scope.
I would gladly wear there colour work with rains on. Be disciplined have a reward chart. And so on.
I need total care anyhow because of my cerebral palsy. It takes a special person to be a caregiver, I have met so many people in my life who do my care, it’s crazy. If I really know an aide well, I have been “little” when they do my care like play with one of my toys, suck my pacifier, or hold my doll, but I don’t ask them to talk to me as a baby. I would LOVE them to do that but to me, that’s going to far. Katie can be a handful to take care of, and more then anything would like to find a mommy or caretaker I trust.
I strongly am agaist public exposer. Mainly due to being abdl is verry taboo in Society
There’s a lot of stuff that is a hard no from me. And I mean a -lot-. Even stuff that gets brought up here often enough makes me put on the brakes and go “Oh, hell no.”
I try to general skip those types of threads if I can tell from the title that it’s going to be something I don’t like to see/read about/be involved in but there are times when I’m like…WHY is this behavior considered ‘OK’? XD
i think i am willing to try most things once. although i have some super hard limits due to trauma and what i know might trigger a melt down :,D