I recently opened up about my abdl side to 1 cousin my sister and friend and the acceptance was amazing I’d be interested in ur views or experiences or have u even told anyone
Sounds great! With me it’s on a need-to-know basis. I am also incontinent and don’t feel everyone needs to know about it.
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Only two people in my life know.
1). My wife- she hates it and wants nothing to do with it. Never wants to see, hear or smell any evidence.
2).Childhood Friend- although we basically only talk through text, we do talk almost daily. He told me he was gay and I told him I like to wear diapers. He has been super accepting and has asked questions. He even admitted that he would try it if given one to try, but he wouldn’t go out and buy anything for himself.
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how did she find out and do you wear around her?
I told my mom at age 16 after secretly wearing for around 3 months. I’m glad I did because she was very accepting and helped me hide my diapers that I ordered, also let me buy whatever ones I wanted.
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I told her after being married for 10 years. That was almost 6 years ago. It was very touch and go at first. She actually almost took the kids and left, but it is slightly better now. She said she won’t leave me over it, but it’s definitely a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy when it comes to my diapers.
And no, I don’t wear around her except for the few times I get brave and wear to bed if she has gone to bed before me.
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I haven’t told anyone and I have no plans to do it.
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I don’t know how you do it… what happens if she finds out you are wearing while in bed together? Do you not get to wear much if you can’t around her?
Other than my girlfriend, the only other person I ever told was my brother. The reason I told him was because I highly suspected he was ABDL (which he is). I don’t plan on telling anyone else.
Nevertheless, I think it’s great that you were able to open up to others; it must be very liberating.
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At this point the vast majority of my rl friends know (and occasionally tease me about it) mostly due to them also being in the furry community, which tends to be very accepting.
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It is a very hard situation to be in. She has discovered that I am wearing in bed before. She basically just says “really?” And then scoots as far away from me on the bed as possible so my diaper can’t touch her. I definitely don’t get to wear much. She works from home so I am very rarely in the house by myself.
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The only person that knows is my husband, and I definitely want to keep it that way. I don’t wear diapers for fetish reasons, but I still don’t really want anyone knowing about my regression since it isn’t their business. I definitely wouldn’t tell my family…that’s just weird to me.
She acts like you have the plague or something…that def wouldn’t sit well with me if my hubby treated me like a leper for wearing a diaper. 100% not cool in my book.