While in public, while practicing an acceptable degree of discretion?
I know people always worry about going out diapered and think somehow that “everyone is going to know”
I’m sure most of us can say with absolute certainty that it is unfounded
I cant even think of a single instance in which someone may have known I was diapered
Maybe at one point I worried, but slowly you gain confidence at going further out diapered and you realize that unless you plan on making it obvious, nobody will ever know
I believe making it obvious should never be the goal, unless you are at a place where that is acceptable
Like if you have ever been to a Con, they would typically have a room set aside for this sort of thing
At least thats what I have heard, ive never been to a Con as ive never had enough time off, plus the major expenses involved in flying to one (or driving if you live semi-close) and renting a room at a hotel, cost of going to the event, etc
So can anyone say you have ever been outed while going out diapered and trying to be discrete?
Because I dont know that ive ever heard of such a thing happening
The only instances ive heard of, were people deliberately making it obvious to get a reaction out of people
I once was using a family bathroom and the door lock failed and a woman looked in, saw me, and then immediately shut the door. I heard her saying “There’s a man putting a diaper on in there.”
Several years ago when I started wetting the bed around age 35, I came home from work and the garbage can had been tipped over and an animal had torn open a garbage bag with three wet Abenas. The diapers were spread out on my front lawn. There was snow on the ground which made them harder to see, but nonetheless, my business was on display for who knows how long. I was embarrassed, but nothing ever came from that. Not a single neighbor ever mentioned it.
That’s always a concern of mine. I keep them stashed in my garage and only put them out on trash night. I still wait for that day when a raccoon or coyote decides to pick through the trash. I guess I tend to worry about every possible outcome, especially the bad ones.
Had something similar happen a while back. Myself and a few coworkers were staying on someone’s property with our travel trailers during a project. During my first week there, I had tossed a trash bag with a couple Peek-abus and lilpawz in the can I kept outside (keyword: kept). The next day while I was at work, the families dog tore into my can and ripped the bag up right infront of my trailer. I didn’t hear about it until one of my coworkers got home and told me. He never mentioned the diapers, or treated me differently but I know he saw as they were literally in full view on the ground. Luckily I made it back and got it cleaned up before anyone else saw
I see that everyone being “outed” has either been in the process of changing, or by garbage bags being ripped by animals/falling apart due to weight
Nobody seems to have been outed by the random stanger somehow super concerned about what kind of underwear you are wearing, its only curious people in the ABDL Community that seem to care that much
I was on a train and had to put my backpack into the overhead storage. I did that and my tshirt and hoodie lifted way too much and exposed the top of the diaper. I made eye contact with two people sitting on the other side of the train and they saw everything. Beginning of the 4 hour journey and you cannot change seats on these trains.
I’ve had a nosy co-worker who had migrated from Jamaica who had noticed when I worked in a restaurant, she asked me one day as I walked into the staff room alone “are you wearing a pamper?”, I was absolutely mortified and said “no”, shaking. I then said “even if I did, I’m not doing it because I’m a perv, you’ve heard of incontience right?” She was very accepting and gave me a hug as i started crying (pressure got to me), she had helped me out by telling me that skinny jeans didn’t go with the diapers I wore and mentioned other brands, she even told me once in private that I smelt faintly of urine and that I needed to keep hydrated and change more often because she didn’t want anybody else to know. She’s basically treated me like she did before she knew.
I got patted down at an airport and they guys eyes went real wide when he felt my diaper. I figured he was an asshole who got what he deserved as I wasn’t even a passenger, just taking my mother-in-law to her flight.
I was once outed when I was about 14 (about 21 years ago). I was at a hotel gym and was getting dressed after showering, I had just put on my Easy-Ups when one of the gym staff came into the restroom. I didn’t have any sense back then to go to a stall to get dressed. I figured since there wasn’t anybody at the gym, I wouldn’t have to worry about anyone walking in on me.
Many years ago I was in a consignment shop and picked out a suit for me and a dress for my other self. I went into a changing room and closed the curtain. I tried the dress on first and then the suit. When I was putting on the jacket, a woman slid back the curtain, was embarrassed and apologized. I acted like it was no big deal.
I’m not sure, because it wasn’t that obvious if that’s what this person meant. But I was wearing a Crinklz under my clothes while grocery shopping a few years back. My jeans were a little form fitting I suppose but not too obvious. Well an older lady said something along the lines of “oh I’m so sorry honey”
I was rather confused. It didn’t occur to me that she may have been talking about my diaper until later that evening. I don’t think it was an instance of someone saying sorry trying to squeeze by me in a grocery isle either
I like to drive around and keep my pacifier in my mouth and sort of push my limits on whether other cars can see me, usually I get scared and take it out if a car or pedestrian may spot me. Recently I pushed the boundaries too far, because as I was stopped putting air in my tire, a vehicle drove by and they shouted “pacifier kid” at me. I’m 31, not a kid, but that’s the extent of my pacifier outing.