I’ve been writing from the start of me telling my ex partner about abdl to her fully supporting and I saw a break up coming cause we weren’t working so well unfortunately cause I love that person more than anyone but it just wasn’t going to work. We ended last night on good terms however I’m a total mess im lost and just out of it. After being in a loving fun relationship for a few years going back to single is scary. I miss them but I need to sort myself and not necessary move on but not cry and wanna die when I think of them. So has anyone got any tips lol
Give it time, your young, there will be allot more girls.
Open yourself to the possibilities the future holds, good or bad. Keep your mind open. Don’t seek results, don’t deny them neither. And keep interested in learning…that one above all.
And don’t let anyone or anything harm you. Best I can suggest.
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If this breakup is getting you this down I would suggest that you never get married and have a family to lose as a divorce may kill you. It’s an old platitude but tried and true, “time heals all wounds”. Just don’t allow yourself to wallow in pity, possibly by doing something for someone else to take your mind of yourself and your problems.
Hey, so sorry for your break up. 
But I agree with everyone- give it some time, give yourself a little air, and just enjoy the things in your life that can kind of keep you going. You’ll find the next catch soon enough. 
Believing is you.
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Sending hugs. :3
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Thanks for all the heart warming supporting, that person has since reached out. We’re still giving it some time to talk over things, cause it ended on good terms them didn’t want to end it but more unless we’re in a bad mood and just went along with it thinking it was a bluff. We’re talking though which Is good, this person means the world and more to me. I was even going to propose to them at some point in next 12 months! But if it doesn’t work out then I’ve lost nothing more and I’ll move on, but if it works out I’ve got all the more to gain! Fingers are crossed but I’m also expecting the worst. I’ll keep this thread updated
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