Bottome Tape Hits the Thighs

so this has been a problem to me, bet to most dls too. where the bottom tape of (4 tapes diaper) always hits my thigh causing discomforts, and I always need to adjust it by pulling the padding out to cover the tapes so it doesnt hit the thighs. not sure how to fix this, i tried angling the bottom tape to be more vertical, because the more horizontal, the more would touch the thighs. yet those doesnt work.

Angle the tape up almost at a 45 degree angle ( on some diapers ) … AND … pull the wing down so there is extra material sticking out the bottom under the tab area.

I dislike it when the edge of my diaper rolls over due to physical activity, and I end up with a tab stuck to my skin x_x

even with pulling down the wings or just leaving some padding below the tapes after sometime it would just disappear and the tapes would hit the thigh again. the 45° makes sense tho, thats what i was trying to explain about the vertical thing