For those unaware of me I’m the girlfriend of a DL not into it myself just trying to support my man.
Because of my support my love decided to order some legit diapers to wear instead of just cheapo’s he could find at an in town store, which awesome. We went on a trip together (another important milestone for me.) and they showed up the night before so sadly he never got to try them. I was in the car and assumed thats what came in, but didnt wanna ask and while on the trip he told me so yay he is being way more open. Thank all of you who helped with that by the way!
Now when we got home that night he asked if i wanted to see what he had got.. and i said yes.. then totally went nuts and fangirled cause omg the diapers are sooo cute. Hugged and smooched him lots then a lil later he came out and i could hear the rustling and so he came up behind me and told me he couldn’t wait anymore.. So not only did he willingly show me he also decided to wear in front of me! We snuggled and watched a movie.. i was nervous of being too touchy or crossing any lines cause I’m a bit of a horny miss. Which i will talk with him about later.. like whats okay and so on.. So yes i am just super happy he is so open with me now, and cant wait till he opens up more.
On the trip we broached the subject of me possibly wearing as well.. he said I would most likely hate it. While i am unsure how I would feel i just told him i would have to do one of my wiggly bum dances.. Cause I’m not against trying it at all.. So I was just kind of wondering what to expect?
You have no idea how many people on this forum - guys and gals - think you’re absolutely wonderful. I don’t imagine you’ll find yourself limited or diminished in any way whether you try wearing a diaper or not.
I don’t think most of us think of a dry diaper as ‘comfy’ … they are a warm blanket on a cold day, a cool cloud in the heat of Summer, and a comfort to those with the predilection. We’ll be interested to see what you think. If you have everything to gain and nothing to lose, by all means try one! You will likely not understand what all the fuss is about, but I can’t imagine you’ll come to hate diapers.
Your BF is a lucky guy! I hate having to hide mine from my GF. I can’t wear at all around her which is a big issue because when we spent two weeks together, I was grumpy the second half of it because I couldn’t wear. I did bring some with me but never got the chance to slip one on. I’m glad that things are going well for you two!
You have no idea how it warms my heart to see this post. I’ve thought of you a few times since replying to your first post and hoped that you would be able to break those barriers he threw up.
First, he most likely said that you would hate wearing them because he is self-conscious of liking them. If it isn’t your thing just tell him in a manner such as “I enjoy wearing them for you and want to be as much a part of your interests as you are comfortable.”
Next, you said that you were nervous about being too handsy or touchy. Please talk to him about this. Find out where his boundaries are, and be sure to spell out that boundaries and comfort levels are almost certain to change. With the near certainty of change make sure that he knows that if you ask again about something that you are not attempting to push anything on him, rather you want to know where he stands or if his opinions have changed.
You’ve definitely earned a lot of respect from a LOT of ABDL’s for your acceptance and willingness to help your bf.
Idk your previous conversations and what your BFs interests are (beyond the obvious DL being sexual as opposed to regressive) but honestly, just you accepting him is important enough. You wearing is going above and beyond, and I REALLY hope you’re not feeling like it’s necessary to make him happy. I know I’ve tried to go out of my way to be open minded to trying new things for someone I cared deeply for, and we actually violated boundaries that neither of us knew we needed because we followed our relationship high and didn’t think that anything could go wrong if we both enjoyed it. What we didn’t realize was that while it was enjoyable, it wasn’t sustainable.
If you have a legitimately personal curiosity for diapers, then go for it! Only do what feels comfy for you and know that it’s okay if you don’t like it or don’t get the appeal. And it’s great if you do! Your relationship should be good on it’s own with or without the diapers, otherwise you could set an expectation that you may not be able to maintain.
In terms of what to expect, it is wearing padded underwear, plain and simple. There are a WHOLE bunch of different kinds and even diapers that seem the same feel different based on people’s preference. It’s like the difference between people who like to drink wine occasionally and connoisseurs. DL’s will typically have VERY specific desires for what they wear, when and how. You may just be like, “Yeah, kinda soft. Kinda like that kind, not so much this kind.” And that’s okay. You don’t need to be super versed in diaper knowledge. Just try it and do what feels right.
I am always up for trying new things, but I do know it’s his own thing. Maybe me trying will never happen, maybe it will. If he wants to to partake once every blue moon i dont mind.. just like i hope he wont mind every so often trying out my own interests. I honestly dont see this as any different then the fact i love to horse back ride and once every so often would want him to join me… Its my own thing but I would like to enjoy it with him, so why wouldn’t i let him enjoy his own thing with me?
Also he is just getting more knowledgeable about what he likes which is wonderful to me.
They’re extremely comfy… But I’m obviously biased. In summation, diapers are thick and air doesn’t permeate them, so you’ll feel very warm down there. You’ll also be crinkling a lot, especially if you’re planning on doing a diapered booty dance (which sounds divine).
So from experience from my little who was not exactly into diapers and had no interest. She found them fun.
To be fair she is kinda biased because she is an adult baby. But was never sexually into diapers or had interest.
Her experience was that when she put them on. She felt like a pillow was between her legs and was hard to close them and was hard. When ever she walked around with them it rubbed her… In a spot women enjoy… Since they were so thick and taped fairly tightly that pressure seemed to also be there. Every time she sat down or moved she felt it rub.
Now that is her in a dry diaper. When she wet her diaper… It got squishy and got thicker… It only made things that much more interesting…
So if you keep an open mind even if you dont wanna use the diaper. You might find it interesting… If you do go about this. Keep a very open mind. This is pretty taboo to most but you may just find you like it more than you know. Or not…
I dont expect you to be like… This is better than sliced bread. But I also dont expect you to be like. Omg why would you freaking do this…
Either way. I am proud of you for being so open and willing. You are an awesome person for doing that. Keep being open with him and I am sure he will do the same. I am glad your relationship is going so well!