Why is baby talk prohibited on this site?
I would assume because it’s irritating to the people who have to read it and it’s hard to understand. It’s hard to take someone seriously if they’re using babytalk. I babytalk with my hubby all the time even over text when I’m feeling little. Reading my own babytalk when I’m not little though honestly embarrasses me and makes me feel kinda dumb lol. Idk how other people feel about their own babytalk though. I personally don’t like looking at other people’s babytalk, I find it irritating and honestly silly. But that’s just me.
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Because it looks stupid, makes things harder to understand and creates the wrong impression. This is not a roleplay website, it’s a community and support website.
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Yes That makes sense.
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I do kind of wish there were a sub-forum in the discussion topics that allowed it. You guys are the only ones who know about my baby side, and it’d be nice to have some people to play with once in a while. I tried the Discord server once before, but it was pretty dead when I went on. Plus, as an autistic, I’m less comfortable with real-time conversations.
Discord Is BARREN!
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I am surprised at Baby Talk being banned. It would stop some people taking themselves too seriously A sub forum should be created. I asked about it earlier and was told it wasn’t a good idea and was role play - which is nonsense. If I talked in Baby talk it would be to lighten things up. I can’t believe how sore some people are on here.
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I assume it’s because babies dont know how to text??
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Ah It was because you lapsed into a short burst of BabyTalk that I asked. A big black notice appeared saying NO Babytalk and I just wondered about it.
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As for not being able to understand it I still don’t know what ‘Ba Ba’ means when I see it here. I’m sure it’s nothing to do with sheep…
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I’ve been on this site for close to a decade now, and I’m sure it’s been around much longer than that. The big draw for me, and one of the defining features of this site, is that we are a community of people who are normal people who happen to have diapers and regression as a part of our life.
Yes I understand that some people are seeking that regressive safe space and outlet. Might I recommend making a topic to see who would be interested in role play then set up a time? I’m not even opposed to a sub forum. But we have always presented ourselves to the public (or the ones who stumble upon this site) as average people who are interested in diapers and/or regression. We are the adult babies who consider ourselves adults first and should be having adult conversations.
There is no such thing as an AVERAGE person interested in nappies and regression. And if you have to be ‘adults first’ why even bother to call yourselves Adult BABIES?
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as a daddy i totally love to here and read baby talk, why not have at least one spot its allow
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If I talked baby talk - and I can’t - I wouldn’t want to be taken seriously. It would be a joke - something to smile about and loosen up over.
It’s a self proclaimed Adult Baby site. You aren’t babies and you cannot be adult babies if the adult is bigger than the baby and tries to be all straight about being adult. Role Play doesn’t come into it although the suggestion that this is a place for adult babies either suggests role play or that the 'bab’y part of adult baby is just of no consequence. The adult rules.
Several generations of ADISC ago, there was a Roleplay forum. Baby talk seemed to be tolerated in there. I can’t recall with 100% certainty, but I think Roleplay was removed due to lack of use.
We are all adults here, on a support site, we’re not gonna baby talk because it’s irritating and hard to understand sometimes.
That’s what adults say about their babies. You lack the humour and playfulness of babies. You’re more adult than baby.
I don’t read posts with baby talk in then, but they don’t about be either. Over point of clarification this is not an adult baby site. It is an adult baby, diaper lover, and incontinence community site. It also covers everyone in between.
As for an official reason why you would have to ask the owner or an admin. I have found that rolls like this tend to have a backstory. I have a few stable things in the sure I room also. Each had a specific reason for it’s existence.
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As was pointed out in another reply, this site does not only house adult babies, so check that one off first.
Secondly, the reason I can say adults first is because I have an adult job that requires adult responsibilities and any regression activities I take part in (which are slim as I am primarily a DL) come after my responsibilities. I do not live a 100% adult baby lifestyle and while it may be acceptable for others to do so as long as they have a mutually agreed upon arrangement with a caregiver, the majority of us (especially in this community) have to care for ourselves and live typical adult lives.
Sure, we can play the “no one’s average” card and have that wholesome discussion of everyone’s uniqueness. But the point of discussing an average is to see the middle range of a bell curve. What’s an average adult that has a typical socially acceptable lifestyle invariably have? Responsibilities.
Addressing needs (i.e. Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs) which are usually achieved through a source of income that is typically earned through a job. On average, most people’s jobs require them to interact with the society they live in, and thus means they have to adapt to societal expectations and rules. Yes, these rules and expectations vary, but as a typical adult in a typical contemporary society, you are expected to act as is developmentally appropriate. And regression towards infancy is typically not considered appropriate.