So I’m working nights this week and when getting home in the morning I change into a nappy when my wife goes to work. I get some sleep and keep the nappy on all day, changing it if really needed but I always change back into normal underwear before my wife gets home (she doesn’t want me wearing around her).
Yesterday afternoon I was sat in lounge relaxing making the most of having the TV to myself and aying some Xbox when I got a knock at the front door.
When I opened it, it was a friend I used to work with before I moved departments. He was looking at flat around the corner from my house so thought he’d stop by for a catch up as we hadn’t seen each other in a while due to opposing shift patterns. I obviously had to invite him in for a coffee but I felt really awkward doing so as I was wearing a wet Tykables under my joggers. I was trying to keep movement to a minimum in case he heard the rustle of the nappy. We went into the kitchen. As I was making coffee we were stood chatting and I was feeling anxious the whole time. When we went through to the lounge he commented on the way I was walking and asked I f was okay, I was walking slowly and trying not to waddle too much but obviously the wet nappy had a bit of bulk to it. I told him I’d slept awkwardly and had a bit of back pain, that’s all. He stayed for an hour or so and we just chatted the whole time in my lounge. I’ve never felt so awkward, anxious and paranoid that he’d realise or see what I was wearing! I felt very conscious of my wet nappy and I kept movement to a minimum and I kept glancing down to see if my T-shirt had risen up so as to not expose anything.
I was really glad when he left and I’m pretty confident that he didn’t suspect anything. I thought to myself after why would he? It’s not as though he would expect me to be wearing anything other than regular underwear and it’s not something you’d notice unless you yourself wear nappies, but its not something I’d like to experience again. It was bad enough my wife finding out let alone anyone else.
Just thought I’d share, it really helps being able to express these things.
Yeah wearing around people is something that I’m slowly getting used to. But, like you said, most people have no reason to suspect you’re wearing a diaper, and most people wouldn’t even think about it. Last week, I watched a movie with a very close friend. We tend to watch in the same bed (king size), and I was nervous that they would notice my diaper. Nope, even after crawling around the bed to grab food and different things, they didn’t notice a thing. Of course, I was wearing a onesie at the time, and a pretty thin diaper. Still.
When I’m wearing,I don’t answer to anyone, because sometimes I like to mess, and that’s more noticeable then a wet nappy. And furthermore the Crinkle can become noticable too. It’s just best to confine yourself (at least in my case)
I’ve no idea the arrangement of rooms where you live; but, I would have excused myself to go to the bathroom. Once there, I’d have taken the diaper off, cleaned myself quickly, put the joggers back on, and stashed the wet diaper in the trash, in a drawer, or somewhere he wouldn’t have access to. Like I say, you may not have been able to do this; but, we have plenty of trash bags and a trash can in our bathrooms.
I live in a standard two up, two down with the the kitchen and lounge on the ground floor with two bedrooms and the bathroom on the first floor. I did initially think when we were sat in the lounge “should I go and change” but I thought walking across the lounge and up the stairs would make my nappy noticeable. He would see my from behind and maybe see the bulk and notice my waddle more, certainly as there was no other noise I feared he’d hear the crinkle or the rustle as I moved so I just thought it best to stay sat on the sofa accross from him… In hindsight, would have noticed any of this? Who… knows, probably not.
It the first time I’ve ever had anyone visit without any pre-warning and caught me off guard.
I wouldn’t have opened the door, genuinely. Would be too scared they’d notice.
But had I found myself in your position would deffo have excused myself and whipped it off quickly - kudos to you for braving it out! At least you were able to have a nervous pee
Damn that’s scary times reminds me of the time I was living by myself in a studio flat in a nice part of London and as I had said I was moving out the agent hadn’t contact me I got rudely awoken one morning by the sound of keys in my door… i shot up out of bed I was wearing a mega wet nappy and basically ran to the door to be like who is it, and the response I get is it’s the estate agents we’ve come to show someone round I was like “what, nobody has called me or anything I literally was asleep and still in my pjs” he was like do you mind if we take a look, I was like umm yes I do and he was like we are here now it’ll only take a minute I begrudgingly agree to let them in but tbh I had washing up to do, my bed space smelt like pee cause of my nappy and just generally wasn’t show ready and they had the cheeky to say I needed to keep it tidier for viewings.
Bloody well done for keeping it together and surviving and like you say he has no reason to suspect anything and he kinda dropped in out of the blue and he probably would just think any noises were furniture or something else.
Like the fast thinking about your waddle was due to back situation! Clever!
Yep, he might have noticed. But, if he did and he said anything, you could have countered with, “And just why were you looking at my butt?” :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: I see your issue now. I haven’t lived in a 2 story since 1965 so I always think of homes having all rooms on the same level.
I have a similar yet even stranger story. I wear training underwear and plastic underpants to bed nightly. At a hotel about a year ago I wake up in the middle of the night (in only my protective undergear and a tee shirt) to someone trying to get into my room with a card key. It is buzzing each time but the lock isn’t moving. I can hear this semi-drunk guy outside the door saying it should work and his friend asking him if he is sure this is his room. I was just sitting up in my bed in the dark and they went away.
About 5 mins later they return and the key actually works but the second swing arm lock holds it closed so only a few inches opens. I yelled in a not too loud voice (it is about 2 am) that the room is occupied. They sheepishly seemed to go away but 5 mins later I hear the door to the room next to me open and I hear he same guys so I think he finally found his room. To my surprise they brought back the hotel clerk and he opens the door adjoining to my room with another hotel key and it having no second arm lock it opens wide open. So here I am standing up at the base of the bed now in the dark in my tee shirt and plastic underpants saying very strongly the room is occupied and asking why in the hell he is opening the door. It was pretty dark and the clerk was the only one that had come through and he hurriedly pulled the adjoining room door closed and I heard him ushering the drunk(s) away down he hall. It became a bit amusing to me that I then 100% realized I had told this clerk to back off while standing in my protective undergear but maybe he didn’t see for sure what I was wearing.
I have to admit I was more thinking they were there to rob me using their buddy the hotel clerk to gain entrance, so I could just envision me with fists flying all while waring plastic underpants and a tee shirt. Afterwards, I wondered if it would have gone down this violent way and someone called the cops, what would they think with 3 guys fighting on the floor and one of them in plastics underpants!
The next morning (and with a big couch still pulled over by the adjoining door to block it) I was checking out and complained to the front desk. The manager who was very nice said she saw nothing about the incident in the log book from the night clerk but did say he was fairly new to their staff and probably didn’t understand about folks claiming they needed a room key that was lost or broke and not providing one until ID could be provided. She gave me a big discount on the room and said she would speak with him.
Whether an accidental room entry or hotel fire evacuation or driving accident or skiing accident, if something happens to you and you get involved with police or hospital services it may became apparent that others are going to note your protective undergarments. On a better note, whatever is getting you to the hospital or talking to the police I can bet it is worse than anyone seeing your diapers / plastic underpants.
Big discount?! No. That shit should have been free along with the next few stays. Without giving away my identity, similar situation, intelligent job. Overnight in a hotel. Belligerent drunks convinced I was in their room. Clerk unlocked the door, clerk and both drunks rush in the room to me standing in a diaper staring them down the barrel of my service shot gun. The next day we had the building shut down for sex trafficking. The assailants in your situation should count themselves lucky
Yeah, none of the hotels of want to stay in would be so fluent l flippant to just randomly give access to anyone who said they lost a room key. Granted, I guess it depends on the motel/hotel/holiday inn
yep I’ve found that I seem to worry about the sound, but others seem more likely to notice the walk. That’s also the only time I’ve been somewhat outed was by an old guy asking me if my leg had fallen asleep or why my gate was off. (my bambino teddy was pretty soaked)
