Hi Babies so… I made a post awhile back pertaining to a abdl relationship. My fiance atbthe time wasn’t having it. Said she didnt like the idea of her man wearing diapers and being a baby. Then again on a “normal” basis im like every other guy. So Ig im just curious. This pertains to mainly you women. What about it is attractive too you?. What about being a significant baby and/or a mommy. Why do you like it? What about it makes your man attractive?
Hmm I am a baby, but I do think sometimes people in diapers are very cute (not a mommy by any means) but I love the vulnerability like its the ultimate letting go, you dont have to worry about certain things, that feeling when my daddy gives me a cuddle and tells me it will be alright, is such a great moment. Its relaxing too, being all cute and babyish, in society women are expected to be caregivers, so I guess for me knowing I have someone else care giving me makes me feel complete. Also being little is apart of my personality I would say
Plus I really like wetting diapers (lol) and the warmness is also vulnerable, and wearing cute clothes like the whole thing:slight_smile:
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The stigma that is put on men to be “strong,dominant and protectors etc”,has been long imbedded in a woman’s head. So I strongly believe that is why a man in diapers wanting to be mothered is so looked down upon.
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Tell your wife it’s getting normal everybody does it
I was in a pharmacy yesterday and a young guy came in and bought some diapers I could tell he looked like a nerd /country guy. It was called Walgreens but this is in USA
It’s 50 percent ABDL half medical and a small percent “ night life “ related
My wife has that issue - when I wear a diaper I am not the “knight in shining armor”. And I don’t even look for her to be a mommy.
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Been there. It didn’t end ‘happily ever after’, either.
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Your not asking her to change you or anything jeez
If your above the age of let’s say 35 she would be less accepting. If you make a deal to wear twice a week maybe that would be ok
For me, the joy of being a CG comes from having someone dependent on me for things. Cleaning them, getting them snacks, providing a space for fun & games, etc. I like being called Mommy. I love giving cute nick names.
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You should also kindly mention to your wife that according to the feminist movement, a woman can do Anything a man can do so she is very capable of taking care of you and being your “knight and shining mommy”, and the feminist movement is not about women being able to have their cake and eat it to. touché 
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I love pottying in my diapers hehe 
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You must really like sleeping on the couch don’t you? LOL!
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Mine really doesn’t mind and sometimes wears herself, but then she’s not exactly vanilla and I’m DL so there’s no babying going on.
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My ex used to join in and in everything aswell but there where other problems
True story: My wife thinks my butt looks sexy in a diaper. Don’t have one otherwise, just a straight line from my back to the tops of my legs.
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I’ve definitely noticed a trend where women / mommies seem more accepting when you take care of yourself - maybe put some effort into building a toned body. The hairy / beardy jacked guy in diapers is definitely a thing - ( probably because of the inherit contradiction ) - physically having some muscle tone seems to stop the girl your with from forgetting you’re still there for them / their tough guy protector
You basically become the embodiment of hot AND vulnerable at the same time. It’s like having your cake and eating it too, just takes a bit of effort and you’re golden 
Of course, if that’s not your thing, or how you wish to present to the world, then I wouldn’t advise it. There’s a lot of women who are perfectly happy being in control in their relationships, and, as a guy I find that super hot - since traditionally guys are meant to be strong silent types and provide for their family, and that straitjacket stereotype is still ingrained in society.
I believe you can be all those things while still proudly owning your submissive side. You just have to show her you’re there for her, and you’re just as strong, reliable and capable as anyone else. You just come with an extra gift of vulnerability that a lot of guys have been raised to ignore, or deny. Guys can be totally immature and freak out trying to hide their sensitive sides and honestly, that shit just isn’t attractive - it’s glaringly insecure. If anything you’re a more whole person having embraced your vulnerabilities. That alone shows strength of character, and if the girl is right for you, she’ll notice and appreciate that. Any girl who wants you to suppress your more sensitive side probably isn’t a healthy partner to have (in my opinion).
Anyway, I hope you find a way to show this to your partner. You’re still the attractive guy she got engaged with. Just take it slow, and don’t get down on yourself.
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