I love the padded feel of a diaper. I find myself patting my own diapered bum, because I love the feel of the padding on my bum. I also like rubbing the front of my diaper to feel the padding against my little buddy:blush:. I would really love it if my wife would pat my diapered bum, but she avoids my diaper like the Coronavirus. I have been wearing Super Undies, and donât even wet them. My wife washes them but wonât touch them when on me. 
. I am hoping some day she will get more comfortable with it.
Iâm always touching my but when diapered, I love how I actually have a butt when I wear one
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I do this both to the front and back of my diaper all the time. I admire to myself the thick diapers that I am in, and know and feel secure that my diapers will protect me, comfort me, and contain all of my accidents.
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always like feeling my diaper. I find the more accidents I have the more I like to feel the bulkiness.
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Same here , I filled my cloth diaper nearly an hour ago and still wallowing in the loveliness every time I touch my bum and feel the moving lump thatâs there
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Yes especially after wetting I enjoy feeling the padded " fullness"
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You canât beat that feeling of a wet diaper
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I like having my nappy bottom patted
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Interesting question. But I find my self doing it alot unconsciously!
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Yes I do, love patting bum and front. I like rubbing front also.
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My wife dislikes my diapers but knows when I am wearing. I told her i would love it if she patted my diapered bum and she said âwishful thinkingâ. Oh well.
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whilst I donât do it to myself, my mummy can put me straight into little space by patting my nappied bum.
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How long has your wife known that you wear? Does she just ignore that you are wearing? That is what my wife does. At least she seems to be okay with me hugging her while diapered. Will our wives ever come to accept it and just have fun with it?
Yes even after years of diaper wearing I still do it⌠My wife likes patting my diapered bum alsoâŚ
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well, guess it isnt so weird after all, yes, i like to pat my diapered bottom, eigther end, and drum my fingers over my full diaper
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She has known for a long time but I never wore in front of her except once a year for my birthday when she did not object to me wearing my diaper for the entire day. Of course she avoided me for the day for the most part.
With the pandemic, I have basically said that I want the comfort of wearing and since I am obliging her by staying home and totally away from others, she has softened a bit to accept me wearing all day twice a week and also every night, even though she does not like it at all.
So progress but not acceptance.
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I have only been wearing for a little over a year, and I told my wife about 10 months ago. She thought it was really weird and wants nothing to do with it. She wonât talk about it good or bad, so I just do what I want. We have kids, so my diaper is always covered. When I told her, she asked if I could just wear padded underwear instead of disposable diapers. When I found out about Super Undies, I started wearing those. I havenât tried talking about it again, as I donât want to make her attitude worse. Just ignoring me wearing is not that bad.
I hear you
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Me too Panda, I hope she does for your sake, that would be wonderful.
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Being, âpattedâ while padded adds re-enforcement/validation/acceptance and everything else that you talk about. I love when momma2moosey does it. She will even do it when I am not diapered reminding me of who I am. If I tell her, âhey you just cant pat my bottom when you want to!â she will reply, âyes I can, Iâm the mommy and I can do anything I wantâ. After she changes me, before she lets me up she will patt my bum and say, ânow go playâ.
With that said, if I am laying down and trying to go to sleep, I will reach around and pat it myself. I love the feel on both my bottom and my hand. I love the sound, nothing sounds like a cloth diaper being patted through plastic pants, it is this lovely⌠thud thud thud. And if it is a thick night diaper, all the better.
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