My husband and I both enjoy diaper wearing. We have no problems keeping his up and tight and non leaking, me on the other hand I find it hard even when he puts mine on me to keep it in place and even the highest absorbency diapers fall down and sag badly within a few hours of having one on. Any advice on how I could keep mine safe and tight?
i would hazard to guess it maybe a sizing issue
not just sizing, it’s not hard to put a larger diaper on that’s still fitting snug.
Trick is to angle the tapes in an X pattern, top tapes pointing down and bottom tapes pointing up.
Pull them tight enough to get a snug fit. This will help the diaper from sliding down.
To help with sagging, a onesie is best here 
(with snaps in the crotch)
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I use the tops of old tights to hold my diapers up when I dont wear a onesie.
I use control top panties.
Thank you all for the suggestions, I will be trying a few of them… I have a few onesies but also have to be careful of what I’m wearing around others… maybe some tights will do the trick 