Do you guys have any advice on how to stay safe when meeting a new abdl? I’m meeting one this saturday, but I would really like some advice. And if you can, toss some ideas on activities to do for fun
When ever I meet someone for the first time it always in a public place. Some thing like pizza hut.
Nothing to much the first time and see how thing go.
If that goes OK you could try out see a move or something.
Hope that helps.
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Always meet in a public place such as a chain of coffee shops, always make it a daytime meet. Get a description of what the person will be wearing and cruise past the meeting place, if you don’tlike what you see, keep moving. Don’t setup a play date until you know them really well. Other safety tips is let a friend know you are going, make sure they have your mobile number and arrange for them to call you at a given time and use a pass phrase to let them know ytou are ok.something that won’t sound out of place.
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Completely agree with the above statemens, treat it like you would a date or buying something off craigslist. Go slow with things. It is okay to be sceptical and questioning. Public place for sure.
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In general I will only meet an new ABDL in a public setting, there are very rare exceptions (like I have a friend that has met said person and will vouch for them) or its in a group setting at an ABDL party.
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It’s already been said to meet in public. You could each bring along a happy meal and enjoy a picnic, or some kind of small arts and craft thing if you want your meet up to have some sort of littles activity
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