I started trying diaper recently,frist,i feel difficult about peeing in a diaper,this can only be done in the toilet,I would like to ask you how it was done in the first place.
second,about wetting diaper,i just couldn’t stand that feeling,it’s not that I hate it,it’s just that I can’t accept it psychologically,but I really want to try.I hope you can share your suggestion and experience,thank you very much.
also,English is not my first language,please forgive me if there are mistake.
Just wait until you gotta pee really bad, like doing the pee dance. And then pretend you’re peeing in an urinal.
Well, sounds like you are strongly toilet trained! Your brain only accepts going in the toilet even though you are clearly interested in trying diapers instead.
You just have to practice! It will make things easier and less awkward. Just keep trying if you really want to get used to using diapers.
I’m not sure for me I just wanted to be in diapers since I was an early teen. Never truly needed them so once I was able to finally wear it did take a bit to actually wet them as you think am I going to leak but once it began I’ve really never looked back and now once I’m diapered it’s almost natural for me to just let it flow
I wonder do you feel somewhat ashamed going in a diaper? For many of us, it’s pleasurable or a stress release.
If you are a novice wearing diapers, it does take some practice to override years of being toilet trained. Don’t be ashamed, relax and wet your diaper as the need arises. I can be at work talking to colleagues while I wet my diaper without anyone knowing. I might have a brief momentary glassy-eye gaze as I wet and feel my diaper get warm, but no one has ever commented. I also mess my diaper but not around other people, not even around my wife out of courtesy to their olfactory sensitivity. I am currently wet and messy this morning while I sit here warm and squishy as if nothing unusual has happened. I’ll change before my wife gets up. Later today we have family birthday to attend and I will have a Goodnight XXL under my pants, and yes I will have small to moderate pee pees in my Goodnight pull ups.
Just make a rule to yourself that while you’re wearing diapers no toilet. Just keep your diaper on and eventually you will need to go in your diaper. You might end up doing the pee pee dance before but after a few times you will most likely get the hang of it You can do the same for messing only if you into doing that and feel comfortable with it.
Don’t wait until your bladder is hurting. Try to pee when you have that normal feeling of needing to pee. If you wait too long, the bladder can have trouble relaxing. A lot of this has to do with relaxing. You’ll get there.
You have obviously explored the thoughts of wearing a diaper. It’s a pleasure for me whenever I get a chance to wear my diaper. It’s my secret. and it feels good around my privates in between my legs. Just make yourself comfortable. when you’re by yourself. Do you like your normal chores, around your home, while you’re wearing your diaper.you can also wear shorts over your diaper. And when you feel it’s time for you to pee , just let it go. It’s an amazing feeling. And don’t change your diaper right away Continue to wear it.. if you’re like the rest of us DL it’s is a pleasure. And that’s what it all about .. it’s Your secret. Explore your feelings and wants..
It’s one of the first things instilled in our brains as very young children, so it’s very difficult for many at first. Sitting on the toilet helped me initially for some reason.
Relinquishing that control becomes easier over time.
I was so excited the first few times I put on a diaper that things started pretty fast. But when I started wearing regularly I had to train myself. Sometimes I pee while drinking a cup of water, washing my hands, standing in the shower etc. eventually it gets to be easier and easier. I do wet at night sometimes. It took about 3 months of wearing 24/7 before I started wetting while asleep occasionally. Right now I am wet about twice a week. Sometimes when I wake up dry and it is too early to get up I will lay there and imagine I am jumping up and rushing downstairs to the toilet and usually start peeing about the time I imagine myself getting to the bathroom. I can either imagine my husband is in there and I am dancing at the door or I imagine I just make it and really let it flow. Once I get started I imagine that my wetness mysteriously disappears into the abyss since it doesn’t reach the bed but of course once the diaper is nearly full I can no longer imagine the pee just instantly evaporated as I feel pretty wet. Of course my favorite part is when I am in my husband’s arms or just leaning against him and I wet. He is so peaceful and restful and wetting when he touches me is bliss. First couple times were kind of tricky though since the first time I had not told him I wore so I took it off and was pretty much dancing to go the entire time, but I never ended up being seen or touched in that area anyway so I could have kept it on. Then the second time was on our wedding night I dropped it beside the bed before climbing in. I probably managed to get up and put it back on before any accidents happened but needless to say I didn’t get wet on my wedding night.